TheRock Posted May 28, 2008 Posted May 28, 2008 My GF and I have been dating 2 years. Lots of Sex for 1st year, then dwindled off quickly to once every other week or so. When we do have it, there is little intimacy and it's like "duty sex". She just lays there and lets me have my way with her. Often lately, she is "always tired" or not feeling well to avoid having sex. We are passionate with eachother otherwise, have tried to change things up to keep it fresh, etc. Today my GF informed me that she loves me, is attracted to me and is IN love with me. She loves to kiss me, make out, etc but for some reason, as soon as it moves toward sex, she freaks for some reason. She says she can't explain it and wants to be with me and have great sex with me like we used to, but something stops her. She says she does enjoy sex with me, but feels like she doesn't want it or need it...not with me or anybody. Just not into it anymore... We are exclusive and I know for a fact she's not cheating on me, don't know what else it could be. It's a lack of libido, but she also avoids it when I begin foreplay with her. It's been the source of friction in our relationship for several months now. She's calling a Psychologist tomorrow 4 an appt. Any ideas how to snap her out of it or what causes this?
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