fusion324 Posted May 28, 2008 Posted May 28, 2008 There is this girl at work who i found out was interested in me, and after hanging out and kissing a few times realized i like her too. We are very different from each other so I'm being careful about how I act. I want to know subtle ways i can show i like her a lot without freaking her out and turning her away, any suggestions? I'm 23 and she's 22 if that helps things.
Miss Right Posted May 28, 2008 Posted May 28, 2008 Different how? What does she think of you now? If you guys have already hung out and kissed, I don't see how she wouldn't know that you're interested...what kinda interest are we talking here?
SpikeyChick Posted May 28, 2008 Posted May 28, 2008 There is this girl at work who i found out was interested in me, and after hanging out and kissing a few times realized i like her too. We are very different from each other so I'm being careful about how I act. I want to know subtle ways i can show i like her a lot without freaking her out and turning her away, any suggestions? I'm 23 and she's 22 if that helps things. Believe me she knows already and she wants more. What is it with you young guys - you all sound so scared of women. We are not fragile dolls who need to be cotton wrapped. Women like men who like them, and we also like men who are confident and cool and masculine. Too bad that the PC crap from our education system has feminized you males to the point that one of you needs to post here for advice on what to do next. YOu have KISSED her,dude- that is an open door with a big WELCOME mat. Just do what your male instincts tell you and stop thinking about what some woman would "approve" .. WEv women are a mass of contradictions -here is one of my personal favorite paradoxes . WE love men who treat us with manly chivalryand gentleness, BUT we do not like men who act in ways that seek our approval. Do not try to think all this out before you act - men who take risks are sexy. Males who want a guarantee that they will not be rejected are NOT. WE expect YOU to take the risks because most of us are too scared .. Take the lead and get the girl .
Author fusion324 Posted May 28, 2008 Author Posted May 28, 2008 different in the fact that she has many tattoos and piercings and is sort of a wild child, while i'm more laid back and conservative. and i mean interested as in more then just kissing friends. but i do understand wat spikeychick is saying, and i shouldnt over think things. I should just take action.
Krytie TV Posted May 28, 2008 Posted May 28, 2008 I want to know subtle ways i can show i like her a lot without freaking her out and turning her away, any suggestions? Yeah, don't be subtle. Subtle is annoying. If you want it, take it. Approach her like there's no doubt in your mind that she is crazy about you. Women like that confidence as long as it doesn't border on annoying arrogance. A good show of confidence opens up a LOT of doors.
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