U4RICK Posted July 19, 2003 Posted July 19, 2003 Met this guy last night… very cute and very sweet. He is a friend of my (girl) friend. Anyway I ended up tagging along to a party of some of his friends with them both, any opportunity he could he would ask me things to get to know me, which I thought was very nice as we spoke I realized we had heaps in common. At first all I thought was that he was a cute guy, but now having spoken to him for a while and having thought about it I have decided he is definitely someone I would like to get to know, basically I would like to see him again. Now in my illusive ways I am sure he has no idea that I would more than welcome a phone call from him. He works in the same building I do, so I suppose if he really wanted he could get in contact with me, but he doesn’t know my surname so finding my office number could prove to be very hard, and he could ask my friend but I don’t think he would. I know that they say ‘if he really wants to see you again he will find a way to contact you’ but I know that these days guys are shy. I know that these days its ok for girls to ask guys out but I suppose I would love a guy to do it, dreaming YES PERHAPS. What’s the likelihood these days that guys ask you out… seems like the girls are doing it more, is that right? ANYWAY in terms of my little dilemma…Not sure what to do? Any suggestions? I want to be smart about it, I don’t want scare him away.
Starlight43 Posted July 19, 2003 Posted July 19, 2003 if this guy is a friend of your friend. I say you ask your friend about it and see if your friend would think this guy might be into you? I say that's the best way to go for now. good luck!
Author U4RICK Posted July 19, 2003 Author Posted July 19, 2003 Thanks for your reply Starlight43 but I kinda wanted to keep her out of it. Don’t like that whole, he said, she said stuff! Know what I mean? Didn’t want to add people to the equation. It is probably appropriate for me to tell her naturally but I didn’t want to make her cupid! What do you think?
Starlight43 Posted July 19, 2003 Posted July 19, 2003 hmm...well then i say if you are confident enough just go for something. but hehe, even tho you dont like the idea, i bet the other friend could offer some good insight.
Author U4RICK Posted July 20, 2003 Author Posted July 20, 2003 i bet the other friend could offer some good insight. Suppose you are right, i will think about that a little more Thanks Starlight43 Anyone else consider themselves the LOVE DOCTOR...??? any other suggestions?
Miggggel Posted July 21, 2003 Posted July 21, 2003 I think you should contact him, why is it that people always play these waiting games. Go 4 it girl. there is nothing wrong with a girl taking the first steps.
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