chiara19 Posted May 27, 2008 Posted May 27, 2008 Hi, I am new on this forum. I would like to hear from you and maybe get a little advice on what should i do! My situation is complicated, I went out with this guy for 3 years, we were both 23, and we were doing really well, we even went on a romantic trip to Paris... We were soulmates I believe, spent really lots of time together and he came to Italy twice and his parents who love me like if i was their daughter were also planning to come and get familiar with my culture- our parents had met before, and they really liked each other. Then suddenly out of blue he told me he was going to move to another city - about 800 miles away but still insisted that he loved me and wanted to be with me. After few weeks we had an argument and he dumped me saying he was just waiting for a good moment to do so as he loves me but is not in love with me anymore and he lost his passion for sex with me. And after that i was really upset and broke but we decided to stay friends. He was getting ready to move away but it took him about 3 months to do so. During this time, he was coming to see me about 3 times a week, taking me to the cinema, for a meal, for a drink. We chatted, laughed, had great time, but nothing physical. The last night before he left we went to our favourite restaurant of when we where still together and after that he drove me to mine and we got cosy and ended up having sex. He told me he loved me but we could not be together. He gave me a big Hollywood kiss at the end and left. Now he has been gone for 3 months but we are still in touch- we talk about his new life, my life, anything about 2 times a week. His parents still call me and meet for a drink, bunch, etc... I told him that he's away so he can move on with his life and he doesn't have to talk to me if it bothers him,if he doesn't feel like to, but he told me he enjoys our conversations... What should I do? Should i ask him to NC? I love him so much it hurts! Please help me establish what he may want? I am so confused!!! Chiara xxx:(
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