Confuzzled79 Posted May 27, 2008 Posted May 27, 2008 OK so here is the deal. My friend asked me to pick up a friend of his at the airport. I was expecting another guy, but when I got there this beautiful woman is standing waiting for me. I had to remind myself that I have a girlfriend. I drove her back to the spot we were all staying at and the more she talked the more I liked her. She was gorgeous, smart, sweet and friends with alot of my boys. In fact, she was the only female invited by the groom that he wasn't related to. She was just cool. I realized that I had heard them all talk about their homegirl before but I just didn't realize that she was who they meant. I thought about it and I had met her before. Three years prior I had met her and still remembered because I couldn't work up the nerve to talk to her. That whole first day I chatted with her and I liked everything about her. I found myself flirting with her and she seemed to be flirting back. I didn't try anything but I was openly flirting. Then she asked me, "wait... where is your girlfriend? A guy like you would have a girlfriend." I didn't lie. I told her that she was back home. The girl said that I had no business flirting with her and that she wasn't interested in being my fling or my other woman. Long story shorter. I actually like her! I have only been with my girl for 6 mos. and I don't know if she is the one, but I do care about her. At the same time, I feel like I would be selling myself, and this girl, short not to at LEAST get to know her. I have had the opportunity to cheat before and just not been interested. But I spent that whole weekend just trying to convince her to let me call her and talk. She said I could, but that it had to be strictly platonic while I had a girlfriend. Is it wrong to try and get to know her?
Wonkette2008 Posted May 27, 2008 Posted May 27, 2008 OMG!! I LOVE this site... you should read my post a few threads down. I am in this situation, ALMOST exactly. Except I am the girl you would have kissed. I didn't get that far with the guy that supposedly likes me. Wait... when DID you kiss her? Before or after she knew you had a g/f?
TogetherForever Posted May 27, 2008 Posted May 27, 2008 Hi Confuzzled!! Welcome to LS!! You need to end one relationship b4 you start another. It wouldn't be fair to anyone involved if you start a relationship with this other person. Agree? TF
twice_shy Posted May 27, 2008 Posted May 27, 2008 That whole first day I chatted with her and I liked everything about her. I found myself flirting with her and she seemed to be flirting back. I didn't try anything but I was openly flirting. Then she asked me, "wait... where is your girlfriend? A guy like you would have a girlfriend." I didn't lie. I told her that she was back home. The girl said that I had no business flirting with her and that she wasn't interested in being my fling or my other woman. Wow, awfully presumptuous of her, not to mention conceited, to say such a thing. But I guess since you can't control yourself around a "gorgeous" woman, she was right afterall. Long story shorter. I actually like her! I have only been with my girl for 6 mos. and I don't know if she is the one, but I do care about her. At the same time, I feel like I would be selling myself, and this girl, short not to at LEAST get to know her. So you must think you are god's gift to women to think you'd be selling her short by not flirting with her. I have had the opportunity to cheat before and just not been interested. But I spent that whole weekend just trying to convince her to let me call her and talk. She said I could, but that it had to be strictly platonic while I had a girlfriend. Is it wrong to try and get to know her? It is wrong to try to get to know her while you have a girlfriend. So break up with your girlfriend so you can get to know her. Your girlfriend deserves better than a guy that wants to hook up with another woman. Afterall, you want to show this other woman what she is missing out on, right? So be a man and let your girlfriend go since you already sold her short.
whichwayisup Posted May 27, 2008 Posted May 27, 2008 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t153629/ You sure this isn't the gal you kissed? Seems like the exact same situation, maybe afew details changed up slightly........ I'm just sayin'.
Cagney Posted May 27, 2008 Posted May 27, 2008 Dude! You can't kiss her and tell about it on this forum. Unless one of you is actually married! Then you can kiss her and come here for advice and varbal beatings too! Hell you can bang her and then come here. But only if one of you are married!
Tripper Posted May 27, 2008 Posted May 27, 2008 Is it wrong to try and get to know her? In one word?? No. But you have a hidden agenda. You've flirted with her and found some chemistry and while she's made it pretty clear that she doesn't want to be with you while you have a gf I sense there is a plan B. What's the plan? Get to know her and if you can form a relationship, blow out the gf?? Better you ditch the gf first then pursue this one.
2sunny Posted May 27, 2008 Posted May 27, 2008 wow- sounds like the same scenario from the new poster from earlier today... good luck to both of you!
Lookingforward Posted May 27, 2008 Posted May 27, 2008 Dude! You can't kiss her and tell about it on this forum. Unless one of you is actually married! Then you can kiss her and come here for advice and varbal beatings too! Hell you can bang her and then come here. But only if one of you are married! cynic rofl
twice_shy Posted May 27, 2008 Posted May 27, 2008 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t153629/ You sure this isn't the gal you kissed? Seems like the exact same situation, maybe afew details changed up slightly........ I'm just sayin'. Great work WWIU. I smell something fishy here. Wonkette, care to tell us why your post is the same story almost to the word?
sally4sara Posted May 27, 2008 Posted May 27, 2008 I'm wondering if it is the guy being talked about in Wonkette's post. I mean the title SAYS "I shouldn't have kissed her" but he makes no mention of actually kissing her in his post. He says he was flirting and she called him out about having a GF. Or the really creepy angle (why do I always find a creepy angle?).... What if some random guy found wonkette's post and is claiming to be that guy? I mean his post IS damn near the same. Some of the exact phrasing in fact! Wonkette....no sending nudie pics till verification!
Cagney Posted May 28, 2008 Posted May 28, 2008 Wonkette....no sending nudie pics till verification! Send 'em to me Wonkette, you can trust me.
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