mark rosen1983 Posted May 27, 2008 Posted May 27, 2008 It has only been about one or two days, but I feel awful about it can I cant even concentrate on anything except her. I have so many regrets about things that should have not said to her.. Do u think that she is going through the same thing I am?
kizik Posted May 27, 2008 Posted May 27, 2008 Yes, she is almost certainly going thru the same. The first few days - week are the worst. I am at 3 weeks and can eat and sleep, but still think about her all day. Anyway from your username you sound like you're about my age (I'm 24) so let me know if you want to talk. -k
jadedone Posted May 27, 2008 Posted May 27, 2008 Yes, she is almost certainly going thru the same. The first few days - week are the worst. I am at 3 weeks and can eat and sleep, but still think about her all day. Anyway from your username you sound like you're about my age (I'm 24) so let me know if you want to talk. -k 2 weeks and I can finally eat. I dropped 10 pounds, and I'm already skinny to begin with. Still can't sleep. Correction , I fall asleep okay, but I wake up after 3 or 4 hours every day, and just lay in bed. It is a miserable experience, but I've experienced it twice before, and eventually got over it. This time being the worst though.
Loukos_od Posted May 28, 2008 Posted May 28, 2008 2 weeks and I can finally eat. I dropped 10 pounds, and I'm already skinny to begin with. Still can't sleep. Correction , I fall asleep okay, but I wake up after 3 or 4 hours every day, and just lay in bed. It is a miserable experience, but I've experienced it twice before, and eventually got over it. This time being the worst though. 1st experiencing this thng.broke up and got miserable 2 times . but this 3rd time is sth different.lost 20 pounds in 2 months . i was eating almost normalkly.but had an increased heart rate.fall asllep ok but weakin up after 3-4 hours just lookin at the walls of my bedroom.glad that there r people at the same position.gives me power to move on . can't forget her smile.peace !
thebam Posted May 28, 2008 Posted May 28, 2008 There is little doubt that the "heartbroken" experience phisical as well as mental changes, that gut feeling down in the pit of your stomach that just will not go away.First time i ended up on fluoxetine and was major down.Second think i cried half my life away, third i begun wondering about the physical feeling and why/how can this affect the body so much.This time i believe i have lost myself completely.If there was some cure for this i think someone would make a major profit. Is she feeling the same? From my experience women handle things like this a little better than men do, my experience.All i will say to you mate is keep busy, play squash, footy anything fill up your diary, and when your alone, you know what happens thats when you start to think, read a book until your eyes drop and you cant stay awake and as time goes by the feeling will ease.If this split is definately permanent then cut all ties whatsoever, mob number everything and allow your body to grieve.Eating is hard i know but if you eat the small things with all the good in them, they are easier to eat when your never hungry lol. Good luck my friend, and when you find yourself again you will be a better man.
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