jadedone Posted May 27, 2008 Posted May 27, 2008 Her lack of communication now is starting to really upset me. The first week after the breakup we still talked online every couple days. Mostly just normal conversation, nothing about getting back together, but it was her that initiated the contact each time. We went to a concert together, and we got along fine but she was a little distant. That was 9 days. She has made no attempt to contact me since then. 6 days ago she had her myspace mood set to "confused" and her status set to "What will it take" and the next day "Completely Lost". I sent her a text that first day asking if she was okay, and she just said she was fine. Now 5 days later I have not heard from her. Even though she is invisible on Yahoo I know she has been online the same time as me at least twice and she didn't send a message. Is she avoiding me because she still has feelings for me and wants to block them out or does she just not care about me at all and wants nothing to do with me. I"m not sure how long to wait before making another attempt to contact her.
Shades Posted May 27, 2008 Posted May 27, 2008 Hey, Sorry to hear about your troubles. I was in that situation also. I made the mistake of misreading her signals ( i.e. msn screen name changes). Anyways I tried going back and it did not work. If someone doesn't want you, you are only intensifiying that feeling by trying to get them back. Trust me I nailed the coffin shut, but after a while I realized that it was not all my fault, and that I hade a good chance to fix my issues with myself to benifit other relationships in the future. Please save face and start making you life better immediatley. I heard all of that during my break up, but didn't listen. Let her be, if she wants you she owes you the first move. You get a fresh start to a new life. And mabye down the road you guys can have another go, but only once things change, and they have to change. Best of luck.
kizik Posted May 27, 2008 Posted May 27, 2008 I don't understand why you expect her to contact you. Isn't the nature of breaking up being apart, in all ways?
Author jadedone Posted May 27, 2008 Author Posted May 27, 2008 I don't understand why you expect her to contact you. Isn't the nature of breaking up being apart, in all ways? She is the one that said she wanted to be friends and still hang out once a week while she resolves some of her issues.
serendip Posted May 27, 2008 Posted May 27, 2008 She is the one that said she wanted to be friends and still hang out once a week while she resolves some of her issues. you can't be friends with her b/c you still have feelings for her. That's why you are posting on LS that you are losing your mind just b/c she hasn't contacted you in several days All you are doing is just hurting yourself and prolonging the pain
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