THEBIGARC Posted May 27, 2008 Posted May 27, 2008 I have been separated from my W since March and have been dating for a few months. Overall it has been ok. I just keep finding little things wrong with everyone I meet. I want to find the right one, but it seems like I am trying to find the perfect one! I guess it is too early for me to find what I really want! Love!! My W has moved on with the OM and I want to do the same. So, I am just going to keep dating different ones until I find the right one. I just feel bad when I want to stop seeing one. I tell them from the start that I am recently separated and not ready for long term, but I still feel bad when I end it. Any sugguestions on how to handle breaking it off with a woman when it runs its course?
guessjeans Posted May 27, 2008 Posted May 27, 2008 Why are you ending it? Are they that bad? You are just not ready, but companionship can be a good thing. Just date, dont go out with the intentions of finding the next EX Bigarc! Go out to have fun, take your mind of your troubles, someone to talk to, someone to understand you, someone that can put a smile on your face, and laughter into your damaged soul. Dont be in a hurry to find the perfect person, because the perfect person doesnt exist. You can bury your hurt, it will be there the first thing in the morning when you wake up, and the last thing at night when you place your head on the pillow. She is out there, i know this to be true. But for now, just relax and give someone a chance to get to you know you. It will all come in time.
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