jojo66 Posted May 27, 2008 Posted May 27, 2008 I have determined to separate from my wife. We have had intense discussions about it. She knows where I stand. I have had a difficult time doing this because she does not want to separate or divorce. I want to hurt her as little as possible but really need to do this.....I have for years, but now it really is time. I've moved out of the bed, but not the house. I need input....creative ideas, etc on how to get this done. Thanks
TrustInYourself Posted May 27, 2008 Posted May 27, 2008 Be as understanding as possible. Care for your wife, care for her feelings, treat her as well as can be expected. My wife left me so I'm going to throw this out there. Why stay with someone for years and constantly consider leaving? You should have taken some action the first time your heart felt differently. That would have been the best for your wife and for you. I really hope that you two find some peace in the situation. Especially your wife. She doesn't understand. She's hurting. You know what you want, but now she's confused and in pain because she cares for you and doesn't understand your unhappiness. God bless and take care.
TrustInYourself Posted May 27, 2008 Posted May 27, 2008 As far as creative ideas? Fall down the stairs and fake your death. Plan a trip for a few days somewhere, and when you're about to go fake that you're sick and have everyone else go while you stay at home, pack up your stuff, and move out before they come back. Finally, don't shower or go to work or do anything regarding your hygiene for 6 months. Someone is going to kick your stinky ass out.
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