Impossible Posted May 26, 2008 Posted May 26, 2008 Well me and my ex have been broking up for almost 5 months, she broke up with me, because I became less of a man, immature, and emotional. I just texted her the other day after not talking to her for a month and a half. We talked for about 30 mins. We spoke about the memorial day weekend. She then said isnt your birthday coming up??/// I go yeah this thursday the 29th, come on i still know when your birthday is./////// she then said lol i konw you do..i knew it was the 29th i just forgot but i knew it.. We then stopped texting for about 20 mins. I then said something to her that I dont regret because its true. I said Don take this in a weird way, but ive been thinking about you lately.//////////// She said and what exactly are you thinking about?//////////////// I said about you silly..about..i guess you can say memories./////////////////// She then said Why are you thinking?///////////////// I said because I kinda miss you.//////////////// She said I see.///////////////////// Then she said You didnt move on yet.////////////////// I said yes i did, why is it bad that i think about you sometimes?///////////// (I really did move on, but I still have feelings for her) She then said No but why dont you move on.////////////// I said I did. I dont understand. ////////////////I then said I had to go because i really wasnt understanding her. Does anyone know if there was any good signs??? I mean she asked when my birthday was. Does that mean she still cares??? Should I continue to contact her?? I havent talked to her today and i dont think i will. What should I do, I mean I still have feelings for her and I still care about her. Advice Please..
SoStupid Posted May 26, 2008 Posted May 26, 2008 Well me and my ex have been broking up for almost 5 months, she broke up with me, because I became less of a man, immature, and emotional. I just texted her the other day after not talking to her for a month and a half. We talked for about 30 mins. We spoke about the memorial day weekend. She then said isnt your birthday coming up??/// I go yeah this thursday the 29th, come on i still know when your birthday is./////// she then said lol i konw you do..i knew it was the 29th i just forgot but i knew it.. We then stopped texting for about 20 mins. I then said something to her that I dont regret because its true. I said Don take this in a weird way, but ive been thinking about you lately.//////////// She said and what exactly are you thinking about?//////////////// I said about you silly..about..i guess you can say memories./////////////////// She then said Why are you thinking?///////////////// I said because I kinda miss you.//////////////// She said I see.///////////////////// Then she said You didnt move on yet.////////////////// I said yes i did, why is it bad that i think about you sometimes?///////////// (I really did move on, but I still have feelings for her) She then said No but why dont you move on.////////////// I said I did. I dont understand. ////////////////I then said I had to go because i really wasnt understanding her. Does anyone know if there was any good signs??? I mean she asked when my birthday was. Does that mean she still cares??? Should I continue to contact her?? I havent talked to her today and i dont think i will. What should I do, I mean I still have feelings for her and I still care about her. Advice Please.. I wouldn't read to much into this... Just because she said something about your birthday doesn't necessarily mean that she is still in love with you. could just be a conversation starter. Should you still contact her..... No, i think it will just dig up those old feelings... I think they are better off buired.. Wait for her to contact you. whatever you do DON'T let her know that you still feel this way..
Author Impossible Posted May 26, 2008 Author Posted May 26, 2008 yeah I understand. Your right I'll just wait till she contacts me.. if she ever does. I always seem to just find that last hope as to hoping it means something you know.
SoStupid Posted May 26, 2008 Posted May 26, 2008 oh trust me I know what you mean.. But for the best results... let fate play its role!!! and good luck to you!
Author Impossible Posted May 26, 2008 Author Posted May 26, 2008 oh trust me I know what you mean.. But for the best results... let fate play its role!!! and good luck to you! I know, but it was good for about 1 1/2 months where I didnt think about her at all, but lately i've been thinking about her. I don't know why. Anyway my birthday is coming up and im going for my driving test thursday morning I can't wait. So hopefully if I get my liscense my mind will be off of her, because i'll be driving around =) ahah. I do hope, though, that she does contact me. I really would like to get to know her again. I do miss her.
upsetnhurt Posted May 27, 2008 Posted May 27, 2008 I think that she was quite clear in telling you that if you have yet to move on from the thought of having her as a gf, then you really should. I am not so sure how much clearer you need her to be. I have no doubt she still cares about you, as unless it was a terrible breakup, why wouldn't she? Yet caring and wanting to be in a relationship with you are two entirely different things. If she had any interest, she could have simply said I have been thinking about you as well.......yet she did not, did she?
Author Impossible Posted May 27, 2008 Author Posted May 27, 2008 I think that she was quite clear in telling you that if you have yet to move on from the thought of having her as a gf, then you really should. I am not so sure how much clearer you need her to be. I have no doubt she still cares about you, as unless it was a terrible breakup, why wouldn't she? Yet caring and wanting to be in a relationship with you are two entirely different things. If she had any interest, she could have simply said I have been thinking about you as well.......yet she did not, did she? Your correct. And no she never said I've been thinking about you too...She just said "I see" when I told her I've been thinking about her. Our breakup wasn't terrible. I did move on though. I go out with friends and family and I work out. So I'm working on myself. I know I've changed my attitude.
wowIlose Posted May 27, 2008 Posted May 27, 2008 Bad move on your part and I am not going to beat around the bush, you don't have a chance, especially after those texts.. I am sorry bro, I know it hurts but stay strong and try not to text anymore for a bit at least Good luck friend.
serendip Posted May 27, 2008 Posted May 27, 2008 I said because I kinda miss you. She said I see. Then she said You didnt move on yet. I said yes i did, why is it bad that i think about you sometimes? She then said No but why dont you move on. Does anyone know if there was any good signs??? I don't see how clearer it can get. She's telling you to move on with your life...meaning it's dead...it's gone. There was no signs that she wanted you back. Best to not contact her anymore and try to heal. My ex. text me asking how I was and that she was thinking of me. I don't see that as a sign that she wants me back...I didn't bother responding...if she wanted a second chance she would tell me....just like your ex would tell you what she wants. She wants you to move on.
Author Impossible Posted May 27, 2008 Author Posted May 27, 2008 I don't see how clearer it can get. She's telling you to move on with your life...meaning it's dead...it's gone. There was no signs that she wanted you back. Best to not contact her anymore and try to heal. My ex. text me asking how I was and that she was thinking of me. I don't see that as a sign that she wants me back...I didn't bother responding...if she wanted a second chance she would tell me....just like your ex would tell you what she wants. She wants you to move on. Yeah...I see what your saying...but hey i'm happy now. I'm not upset or depressed. So I feel good. Thanks
Author Impossible Posted June 12, 2008 Author Posted June 12, 2008 Well my ex just texted me yesterday. She said "Hey I just realized I didnt wish you a happy birthday it was not intentionally it slipped my mind, but like they say it's better late then never so happy (late) birthday....sorry I really did forget....bye bye" And all I said was "Lol it's ok and thank you" that was it. It actually made me feel good that she said that. I mean it didn't bother me at all that she didn't say happy birthday to me on the day of my birthday. I actually never even thought about that. But it made me smile when she said that. well that is the latest update. Thank you everyone for your advice. I'll be sure to keep everyone updated.
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