BiAxident Posted May 27, 2008 Posted May 27, 2008 *sigh* But I want those things in an attractive, athletic package. And I fear I will have to give up the "icing" I want to get the "cake" I need. (Someone please tell me I don't have to give up the outdoorsy athlete part!) An athletic-outdoorsy guy who is self-reflective? I've never met any, but if I run across one, I'll let you know.
sunshinegirl Posted May 27, 2008 Posted May 27, 2008 An athletic-outdoorsy guy who is self-reflective? I've never met any, but if I run across one, I'll let you know. *groan* thanks. My friend is married to one... why can't we just clone him?
earthling Posted May 27, 2008 Posted May 27, 2008 Closer to my age. Working. Smaller family Alot less jealousy Gave me space More independent Lives closer
Ariadne Posted May 27, 2008 Posted May 27, 2008 Ariadne, you have really given me a tough time for still mourning my relationship. Why do you think you're still mourning yours? I don't think I've ever given you a tough time for mourning your relationship. In reality I really get you and I dig you. The only thing that I have mentioned is that you are having a hard time with your situation because you have so many questions and he just vanished. I suggested that you talk to him and clear your mind. But that's just my idea. The reason I haven't moved on, is because I feel in my heart that I found true love in Denver guy.
justaman99 Posted May 27, 2008 Posted May 27, 2008 A woman that knows how to listen when I am voicing my concerns in the relationship and not turn it around on me and call me names and get angry. Someone that knows communication and respect is a two-way street. Add that to my ex's other qualities and I'll have exactly what I need to go to the next stage in my life.
BiAxident Posted May 27, 2008 Posted May 27, 2008 Oh, and one more thing Santa.. it'd be really great if she swallows
earthling Posted May 27, 2008 Posted May 27, 2008 Oh gawd. I lucked out on the last one. She swallowed. The sex is actually the hardest to get over with right now. Besides the companionship. I just pray the next one is as willing as the last if not more.
LikeCharlotte Posted May 27, 2008 Posted May 27, 2008 Since we are on the subject. I would appreciate more oral sex. Reciprocation please.
Author sedgwick Posted May 27, 2008 Author Posted May 27, 2008 Since we are on the subject. I would appreciate more oral sex. Reciprocation please. YES!!!! So, okay, since you guys brought it up, the swallowing thing? Is it hard to find a girl who does that? To be quite candid, I am a girl who really loves it, although I've only done it with two people ever. I also really genuinely love anal. (He would never do that with me though, because he never had and it freaked him out. He also wouldn't watch porn with me, I think for the same reason.) On top of this I'm bi and I bellydanced naked for him a lot. I also give an excellent massage and always gave him one when he came in off the road. He, on the other hand, was a bit timid. If he could have had it with just me on top all the time he'd have been perfectly happy. Reciprocated with the oral only twice in the 10 months we were together, although I'd say nine times out of ten when I saw him I did it to him. And here's the kicker: I'm really worried that I wasn't good enough in bed for him. Is it hard to find women like me? I want to think maybe he'll remember me at least for the sex.
sultry33 Posted May 27, 2008 Posted May 27, 2008 Since we are on the subject. I would appreciate more oral sex. Reciprocation please. ditto baby.. or at least be good at it..meowwwwwww bitch head on
twice_shy Posted May 27, 2008 Posted May 27, 2008 Someone that does not: -go out club hopping -flirt heavily with other guys hmmm...thats really about it...I don't ask for much.
BiAxident Posted May 28, 2008 Posted May 28, 2008 So, okay, since you guys brought it up, the swallowing thing? Is it hard to find a girl who does that? Based on my experience, no it isn't hard to find. Going by what I have heard from friends, however, it can be a bit tricky. Ex-GF enjoyed doing it because she got off on the power it gave her over my pleasure. She also gargled, which to me was a tad weird, but she enjoyed it. As for the reciprocation, I almost always took great care of her. Often times, she gotten taken care of four or five times before it was my turn. I do hope she rememebers that part of our relationship
LikeCharlotte Posted May 28, 2008 Posted May 28, 2008 As for the reciprocation, I almost always took great care of her. Often times, she gotten taken care of four or five times before it was my turn. I do hope she rememebers that part of our relationship We never forget a good work ethic. Thanks for raising the bar.
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