RedXIII Posted May 26, 2008 Posted May 26, 2008 Long story short - Me and my current boyfriend met 6 months ago now, were dating a months. I asked him if he considered it a relationship, he said no sorry. We stopped talking. A few days later he came back to me, wanting to be in a relationship. So up until a month ago, we were fine, but I felt like I was more in love with him. I always wanted to see him more, he started rejecting sex for being tired etc, spending more time with his friends. He ended up breaking up with me and saying we have the same issues, with trust and etc. and we're too alike to be together. I told him we could have councelling etc, but he said no, it's too far gone. (One of his ex's cheated on him, then left him for the man she cheated on him with, the other just left him one day when everything seemed fine) Well, after 2 weeks, he started talking to me again, but I was being purposely evasive to have him want me back. I started dating some other guys. Then we met up to talk about everything, one thing led to another... he said he needed time to think, I said sure, didn't talk to him again, then he said he wanted me back. So I said things need to change, then we got back together. He's going to councelling now, wanting to go on holiday with me, etc. However I read through his texts the other day (bad I know), he was planning to meet some other girl while we weren't together. That in itself didn't bother me - it's that he lied and said he didn't want to or meet anyone else. I kept repeating stop lying to me! But he carried on. I said I know, I was told, and told him her name. Then he turned around and admitted it to me. Then I got angry he'd lied and he said I'm the only woman for him, he was only doing it to try to protect me. I said oh, so if you sleep with someone else and lie to protect me it's justified? He said no, hun you know I love you and deleted every girl in his phone book except his cousin! Well, we've spent the last 4 days together straight and he's being so paranoid, like hun are you getting bored of me? I said no, why? He's like I'm just paranoid, sorry. But this other guy I met when we weren't together is so nice - he's so funny, good looking, made a fair bit of time for me, but seems a little insensitive (such as play fighting, actually hurting me and just laughing, not saying sorry if he hurts me during sex etc.) He said he wanted to be with me when I wasn't with my current bf, but that there's complications - that his ex of 2 1/2 years still visits his family regularly, as they're very close, he doesn't even hug or kiss her but she's always there, and that basically his family wouldn't be happy with someone new coming along. Which I took as meaning I wouldn't be allowed to come around but I don't know. I have a suspicious nature anyway, so it worried me. He also talks to girls from his work a lot and I know he's done things like sat down the beach with them of a night. I don't know if that would of stopped if I got with him or not. That's what I love about my current bf, he's so sensitive, and we just know each other inside out, were so alike, and he's making himself what I want/need. But I dunno anymore?
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