mollers Posted May 26, 2008 Posted May 26, 2008 Don't know your story - why did you break up? Is it something that can be fixed? It sounds like deep down you know the relationship is not good for you and from earlier postings I recollect he had previously treated you as disposable? Difficult as it is you need to stay strong which is not easy when he is there in front of you. Will wait to hear from you what has happened next but if you have made a mistake (which it sounds as though you have in your mind) you can start again, don't feel you have to fall in with his plans just because this one-off thing happened.X
sedgwick Posted May 26, 2008 Posted May 26, 2008 It sounds to me like he actually loves you. Why fight it? Do you still love him? Also...it's couldn't HAVE, not couldn't OF.
pickingupthepieces Posted May 27, 2008 Posted May 27, 2008 No the break up really can't be fixed...its way to much to jump back into. We both have a ton of things we need to work on for ourselves. There was jealousy, bad communication (on his part, that's probably why I am still so frustrated), plenty of financial trouble and some controlling (on my part, which I am slowly working on, the whole low self esteem thing). Plus his family hates me because he has depression issues and they blame me for everything. They would FREAK if they even knew we were talking. This guy cannot stand up for himself nevermind me...so there are lots of problems there, that I can't fix on my own. After our breakup I TRIED so hard to get back together.. it didn't work it just pushed him farther away. I honestly don't think he purposely treated me badly...it was just his way, he really doesn't know how to deal with things. I honestly think he still cares for me and well I think that is what scares me. I really think we both still love eachother... weird to actually admit that, its just that it won't work out. He left this morning to go to work (which he was late for because he was with me) and I haven't heard from him since. He said he would call me later this week, because he still has my stuff. We'll see he really has a hard time following through with things .... not just with me but in general. So, we'll see. at this point I'm just going to wait it out. I hate that I still love him.... and I don't want him to see that I do, which is too late because I already told him. We had a 2 hour long convo on the phone before about everything important and everything not so important. I don't know what to take as truth from the convo because he had been drinking, and he has such a hard time expressing himself. Awww.. now I miss him.
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