theobserver Posted May 27, 2008 Posted May 27, 2008 I can't agree more with some comments above I'm sure anyone would feel annoyed when something you've done for awhile is naturally picked up by someone else who just has a naturally flair to succeed in regardless of training . You're a natural. HOWEVER he is your boyfriend Im sure he's feeling like crap especially if you confirm you don't really know what you're doing just going with the flow and winning. While he does know what hes doing but can't seem to be as successful. Several things you can do. Start asking him for advice, tell him you respect him and want his "expert" advice on how to improve , that you take this very seriously. Trust me he will be very happy that you came to him this could also wash away his jealousy and he may accept your better but hey theres some things he can teach you regardless. He might even ask after time what it is your doing thats making you win. You can share if you want, if you even know. Modesty goes a long way. Don't be afraid to celebrate your winnings but don't make him feel down involve him somehow. "Thanks to my boyfriend for helping me so much hes the true winner in my life" or something cheesy. Good luck heh.
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