Vincent21212 Posted May 26, 2008 Posted May 26, 2008 Read the whole thing. I may not be good at giving into a relationship, but I know when I woman wants to be with me. YOu are right in your assumptions that you should give her space. My advice would be to wait for her contact. Absolutely. But if for any reason you should have to call, DO NOT LEAVE A VOICEMAIL stating that you miss her and shes on your mind. Don't leave anything message at all. Let her call you back. This isn't about playing games, however you know you want to increase your odds. It's obvious she has a lot going on in her life, and shes unsure of who she wants to be with (whether its you, weekend boy, or future ecuadorian, etc.). That's natural. But it's also very hard to tell you that straight up. So, you need to keep giving her space. Trust me, she already knows how you feel. You also need to prepare yourself, TRULY, for the possible fact that she doesn't want to be with you at this time.
Laszlo Kovacs Posted May 26, 2008 Posted May 26, 2008 Thank you both so much for your advice. It has really put things in perspective. I think that I will at least give her another week to contact me. If she doesn't, then I may send a friendly email as justagirlforever suggested. This is wicked tough, but I love this girl and although I want to be with her, I ultimately just want what's right for her.
Laszlo Kovacs Posted May 31, 2008 Posted May 31, 2008 It has now been almost two weeks since we had our conversation and she still has not contacted me in any way. To be fair, she did move last weekend and this weekend she is getting ready to head to Vermont, but she still could have picked up a phone and let me know what is going on. This is terrible. The way it was left it seemed like everything was going to be okay, but she just needed a little time to deal with moving and things going on with her family. Now, it's been almost two weeks and I have heard absolutely nothing. I can't help but feel like her silence is saying everything...that she doesn't know what she wants, or that it's all over. She said that she would call, so why doesn't she just call and let me know instead of keeping me hanging? If she really card about me as much as she said she does, then wouldn't she at least give me the respect of a phone call no matter what? At this point I just want to know what is going on, but at the same time I don't want to seem like I am forcing her by doing something like calling or sending an email. I know everyone is telling me to be patient, but it it possible that may backfire somehow? Could I just send a friendly "hey, how are you? hope everything is going well" email that doesn't mention anything about the conversation or our relationship as a way to subtely say "I want to know what's going on" or would that backfire? I don't know what to do...why do things that begin so beautifully have to end up being so difficult?!
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