borelandkaren Posted May 27, 2008 Posted May 27, 2008 U know what Biaxident? I reckon I'm pretty much over the relationship game. I've never been terribly successful at them and no, I haven't become a man hater. I've just not ever had a gauge on who I am and I really think that I need to work out just who "Karen" is. If that means never having a relationship again, then I guess that's how it is. The truth is, I've made some really crappy decisions about the men I've been with (N's one and all to some extent) so I don't mind the idea of just getting to know myself, my family (my older brother is single so I might hang with him a bit), my son, find new friends (and the older ones are coming back out of the woodwork) and look for a new career. I'm living on a very limited income at the moment and financially am so much better off than when I was with him so I figure I'm really not too badly off. If a relationship was to pop up I honestly don't know what I'd do. My XN (flaws aside) will be a very hard act to follow.
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