Miss Right Posted May 28, 2008 Posted May 28, 2008 Ok seriously, I don't see what the hell there is to talk about. The guy is obviously playing you and the fact that he tries to be nonchalant about it and relegate his actions to mere "friendliness" is really an insult to your intelligence. If you walked out...no, excuse me, STORMED out after making your allegations and he didn't even think to contact you, well, there's your answer. It's just not THAT serious to him. You need to just leave that one alone. 2 months in and already you're dealing with this kind of bull...it's SO not even worth it. How the hell can you be in a relationship with somone and they spend more time with their friend of the opposite sex than they do with you??? Does that even make sense?...really...just think about. If she was really just a casual friend and he didn't have feelings for her, he would be more than just "telling" you about all the time he spends with her...he would actually INCLUDE you in on that time. He has chosen to pursue this chic and that takes priority over what he has with you. Wake up and stop trying to disillusion yourself. I'm not saying he's cheating yet, but believe me...he likes this chic and it can only grow stronger each day & night they continue to spend together. And the fact that he isn't easing up, and hangs out with her so much, and texts her all day just proves that he's interested. Please, do yourself a favor and leave him alone.
Author confuzed25 Posted May 28, 2008 Author Posted May 28, 2008 sighhhh....i know i know, im being stupid for wanting to talk to him. I guess i am just being weak because i miss the guy i THOUGHT he was. I just really really thhought he was a good guy and i keep thinking it was something i did wrong to make him start treating me differently miss right...thank you, your post really gave me a kick in the butt. I am so angry at him now.....would it be stupid to write him an email naming all the messed up crap he did to me and that it was totally unacceptable, and that im not the kind of stupid girl who falls for that crap. Like just a pretty nasty email but at the same time will maybe make him feel bad for what he did. I just really want him to know that what he did is not ok, and i want to call him out on everything
SpikeyChick Posted May 28, 2008 Posted May 28, 2008 I just really want him to know that what he did is not ok, and i want to call him out on everything If he cared about you and your feelings he would be all over you, and not seeing this other chick. Sending him a "roast" email is foolish- you come off as an emotional nutjob- a loonie who is just ranting. YOu will never get him so see your point - and frankly I do not think that you have much of a case here. Two months dating - no "exclusive " talk - it is kind of a loose arrangement if you ask me. IF this were happening after 6 to 9 months together,then you would be more justified in your anger. He does not think that he is doing anything wrong - only YOU do, and your chances of convincing him of his "sins" are zero. Save your efforts and your dignity and walk away.
Author confuzed25 Posted May 28, 2008 Author Posted May 28, 2008 so you really dont think he realizes that what he did was hurtful, wrong, or messed up and he will never realize it? ugh, i just wish one of us would have ended it properly, like saying the words "its over" so that i could have asked him some of these questions that are nagging me like...."what did you ever want from me?" "did you ever really like me?" and "why did you change?" But i figured he would have contacted me after i walked out and its been 2 days and i havent heard from him....guess i never will?
SouthernT Posted May 28, 2008 Posted May 28, 2008 If he cared about you and your feelings he would be all over you, and not seeing this other chick. Sending him a "roast" email is foolish- you come off as an emotional nutjob- a loonie who is just ranting. YOu will never get him so see your point - and frankly I do not think that you have much of a case here. Two months dating - no "exclusive " talk - it is kind of a loose arrangement if you ask me. IF this were happening after 6 to 9 months together,then you would be more justified in your anger. He does not think that he is doing anything wrong - only YOU do, and your chances of convincing him of his "sins" are zero. Save your efforts and your dignity and walk away. Ya know, it really kills me that it's pretty much a standard rule that guys get to do whatever the heck they feel like doing and never own up to it. And it's up to the girl to stay and make adjustments or walk away, instead of the guy not doing that crap to begin with. How did this ever come about....are guys programed to be this way from childhood for some reason?
Author confuzed25 Posted May 28, 2008 Author Posted May 28, 2008 heres the thing that is driving me absolutely nuts and i cant stop thinking about it... what if he was telling the truth???? maybe he had feelings for her and enjoyed spending time with her but wasnt going to allow anything to happen between them because he was with me. I mean he kept denying over and over and over that anything was going on between them, he promised me that everything with me and him was fine and that he wanted to be with me, he told me everytime he was with her, and he told her when he was with me. A couple times when i know they were hanging out he even texted me "i miss you babe" and stuff like that. Shows he was thinking about me and wasnt totally wrapped up in her and thinking about how much he wanted to break up with me. Then theres the fact when we had that fight he didnt say anything mean to me and didnt say anything about us breaking up, or that he didnt want to be with me anymore, or anything like that. So what if he really did want to be with me??? He could be not contacting me because he thinks i broke up with him...ugh i swear im going to go crazy, i want to contact him so bad and find out how he really feels
zicke Posted May 28, 2008 Posted May 28, 2008 Seriously, just call him and get it over with. You will have your answer either way and you can move on.
SouthernT Posted May 29, 2008 Posted May 29, 2008 heres the thing that is driving me absolutely nuts and i cant stop thinking about it... what if he was telling the truth???? maybe he had feelings for her and enjoyed spending time with her but wasnt going to allow anything to happen between them because he was with me. I mean he kept denying over and over and over that anything was going on between them, he promised me that everything with me and him was fine and that he wanted to be with me, he told me everytime he was with her, and he told her when he was with me. A couple times when i know they were hanging out he even texted me "i miss you babe" and stuff like that. Shows he was thinking about me and wasnt totally wrapped up in her and thinking about how much he wanted to break up with me. Then theres the fact when we had that fight he didnt say anything mean to me and didnt say anything about us breaking up, or that he didnt want to be with me anymore, or anything like that. So what if he really did want to be with me??? He could be not contacting me because he thinks i broke up with him...ugh i swear im going to go crazy, i want to contact him so bad and find out how he really feels They love to have their cake and eat it too....
SpikeyChick Posted May 29, 2008 Posted May 29, 2008 And it's up to the girl to stay and make adjustments or walk away, Those are the only options that we all have - both men and women only have these two choices in bad relationships. Men who are in a crap marriage with a fool of a woman also have just these two choices. What is the point that you are trying to make ?
Author confuzed25 Posted May 29, 2008 Author Posted May 29, 2008 i have just been so weak the last 2 days...like the hurt is only getting worse. I guess because he has not contacted me when i thought for sure that he would. We had a big fight and i walked out without even saying goodbye...there was no closure, no goodbyes, and no one even officially ending it. I really miss him today for some reason...last night i went out with friends and had a great time, guys were hitting on me and got my number.....but then when i woke up this morning it just made me feel even worse because i feel like they arent the kind of guys i would want to date, and i will never find someone im satisfied with. It just made me want my ex more....and it doesnt help that i kept having dreams about him last night. i cant believe how a 2 and a half month relationship can have such an effect on me...i guess because it was still the honeymoon period for me and i saw so much potential in him.
Mary3 Posted May 29, 2008 Posted May 29, 2008 i have just been so weak the last 2 days...like the hurt is only getting worse. I guess because he has not contacted me when i thought for sure that he would. We had a big fight and i walked out without even saying goodbye...there was no closure, no goodbyes, and no one even officially ending it. I really miss him today for some reason...last night i went out with friends and had a great time, guys were hitting on me and got my number.....but then when i woke up this morning it just made me feel even worse because i feel like they arent the kind of guys i would want to date, and i will never find someone im satisfied with. It just made me want my ex more....and it doesnt help that i kept having dreams about him last night. i cant believe how a 2 and a half month relationship can have such an effect on me...i guess because it was still the honeymoon period for me and i saw so much potential in him. Why don't you just call him and tell him how you feel ? Don't put any blame anywhere. Just tell him the truth. That you miss him and want everything to be better between the both of you. Don't ask " Are we broken up " ? Just say : Hey I miss you sweetie. Lets talk and get some burgers . I don't want us to fight . I love you and miss you. " If he really cares ( you have to remember you walked out ) and he thinks you left him ...then TELL him you are missing him and want to go get something to eat. Don't lay the serious stuff on him . You will scare him away. Regarding the girl : Maybe its only friends but what if she were 300 lbs and fugly ? Would you care ? No. You only care because she is gorgeous. Now if you stop operating on fear and let him tell you that she is only a friend and you can believe that ( I mean swallow that ) then thats what you have to do or LEAVE the situation forever. You don't want to leave him. Maybe you should believe him that he just buddies up with her ( maybe thats the truth and mind is always in worry mode and you can't see it any other way ) Maybe they are shagging eachother but he says they are not. You need to get off the fence . Accept this or move on......do something. I say TALK to him in a light friendly way. If he insists he still wants to hang with her ( well then that tells you he has a connection with her ) Its up to YOU to believe him that he is not banging her. He says he is not..... Can you 100% believe in him ?
Author confuzed25 Posted May 29, 2008 Author Posted May 29, 2008 I MESSED UP SO BAD!!! seriously i just want to crawl in a hole right now and die.....i messed things up with an amazing guy. He really was telling me the truth when he said nothing was going on with him and that girl. I wrote him an email today and here is what he wrote back.... I am an understanding person and I can understand why you were mad. I hardly think i treated you like sh*t or was tryin to walk all over you. I told you i stopped textin because i got two 180 dollar cell phone bills. She has verizon so it is free. Me and Megan were really tight at one time and talked all the time. and for a while werent, and now that it is nice and we go out more often we are pretty tight again. Megan has stayed at my house in the past and i have stayed at hers. She and her friend both stayed here when i had my pig roast and Amy was living with me. I hate to see her have to drive 45 min cause she already has one dui and ten points on her license.That is the worst weekend to play around with that stuff. I am not sayin i am not attracted to her or that i would never date her. But so far she is a good friend i wouldnt want to end up losing that. But i can not blame you for feelin like you do and it made me realize that maybe i just do not need a girlfriend. You are a great girl and i am very glad i met you. But i can not do insecurity. I told megan when i was with you and was not tryin to hide nothing. The fact is that you went through my phone without asking. I do not do that to you and i trusted you wouldnt resort to doin that. The fact is that i am 23 and want to be able to see and hang out with whoever i choose. And that is not fair to you. I also noticed that while we were at the bar you were staring at your ex. Thats cool i know people can not help feelings but it is just not some place i want to be. I never meant to hurt you and i am really sorry because that is not my intentions at all. I was in a three year relationship with an insecure girl and i swore i would not do it again. I know that from now on you will always have me and megan or me and others girls in the back of you mind . I know that is how it works. Just do not see the point in moving foward after you said i am a waste of time and a player and lied to you and the stuff you wrote on myspace... yeah i heard enough. I do not want any hard feelings with you at all and i hope we can still talk and stay in touch. I do not want to argue about this at all, you see things your way and i see them mine so i do not even see a reason to reply to this email.
Cherry Blossom 35 Posted May 30, 2008 Posted May 30, 2008 I MESSED UP SO BAD!!! seriously i just want to crawl in a hole right now and die.....i messed things up with an amazing guy. I am not sayin i am not attracted to her or that i would never date her. But so far she is a good friend i wouldnt want to end up losing that. NO, you didn't mess anything up. The fact is that he had fun with you, but things have changed since he has been hanging out with his friend. First of all, if he had strong feelings for you, he wouldn't be with her all the time. That is a fact. Secondly, he admits he would date her and that he is attracted to her. There is nothing you could have done. His feelings have changed. People do that all the time. You can't control it. Do NOT beat yourself up thinking so because it just isn't true. You will get over this guy and meet someone else before you know it. Now don't ruin your summer having regrets!
D-Lish Posted May 30, 2008 Posted May 30, 2008 Well, I think the bottom line is that you have to let this go. He did make reference in his e-mail that he does have some lingering attraction to this girl. That is a bad sign in itself- and sort of lets you know you weren't "crazy" for reading into things. C, the best way for you to handle this is to back off completely and go into NC. Any further attempts at talking to him about this will come off as more insecurity. I have to point out that your instincts weren't off on this one- he even said so himself when he said "I'm not going to deny nothing could happen with her". That is never a good situation to be involved in. You don't want to be competing for your bf's affection- that's a self esteem ruiner. I think this is for the best IMO. I know how much it hurts- I have been there.
SpikeyChick Posted May 30, 2008 Posted May 30, 2008 I MESSED UP SO BAD!!! . This is the most sensible thing that you said in the whole thread. Learn from this- insecurity and possesiveness in women are a huge turnoff for guys. We live and learn (hopefully) Good luck next time around.
Mary3 Posted May 30, 2008 Posted May 30, 2008 I MESSED UP SO BAD!!! seriously i just want to crawl in a hole right now and die.....i messed things up with an amazing guy. He really was telling me the truth when he said nothing was going on with him and that girl. I wrote him an email today and here is what he wrote back.... I am an understanding person and I can understand why you were mad. I hardly think i treated you like sh*t or was tryin to walk all over you. I told you i stopped textin because i got two 180 dollar cell phone bills. She has verizon so it is free. Me and Megan were really tight at one time and talked all the time. and for a while werent, and now that it is nice and we go out more often we are pretty tight again. Megan has stayed at my house in the past and i have stayed at hers. She and her friend both stayed here when i had my pig roast and Amy was living with me. I hate to see her have to drive 45 min cause she already has one dui and ten points on her license.That is the worst weekend to play around with that stuff. I am not sayin i am not attracted to her or that i would never date her. But so far she is a good friend i wouldnt want to end up losing that. But i can not blame you for feelin like you do and it made me realize that maybe i just do not need a girlfriend. You are a great girl and i am very glad i met you. But i can not do insecurity. I told megan when i was with you and was not tryin to hide nothing. The fact is that you went through my phone without asking. I do not do that to you and i trusted you wouldnt resort to doin that. The fact is that i am 23 and want to be able to see and hang out with whoever i choose. And that is not fair to you. I also noticed that while we were at the bar you were staring at your ex. Thats cool i know people can not help feelings but it is just not some place i want to be. I never meant to hurt you and i am really sorry because that is not my intentions at all. I was in a three year relationship with an insecure girl and i swore i would not do it again. I know that from now on you will always have me and megan or me and others girls in the back of you mind . I know that is how it works. Just do not see the point in moving foward after you said i am a waste of time and a player and lied to you and the stuff you wrote on myspace... yeah i heard enough. I do not want any hard feelings with you at all and i hope we can still talk and stay in touch. I do not want to argue about this at all, you see things your way and i see them mine so i do not even see a reason to reply to this email. Well basically he is saying that he does not want an insecure gf. I can relate . I had a bf who was majorly insecure. It drove me AWAY from him and I NEVER want an insecure bf again. He is also saying that he likes this girl , likes being with her , would not mind getting romantic with her , would not mind dating her. Before I say anymore : This guy wants this over. There is absolutely nothing you can do. You drove him away , sad to say. he tried to be upfront about the girl and it drove you crazy. Not blaming you for that because most would be concerned if they bf/gf were hanging around another. It ended mine as a matter of fact because he still thought she was the greatest human ever on this planet earth. I lost. He chose her. Of course she saw him only as a friend but he loved her. I know it. No women could ever hold a candle to that girl . He also states ( your bf ) he does not want a gf right now and he means it. If it means he has to answer to someone , it might as well be someone he enjoys being around like his sexy friend. , sorry. Now this is what you write back : Dear Joel , I have been a total a** , worried about myself and you , not knowing the destruction that I was causing by not trusting you. By going in your phone , by doing all the things I did because I was operating on FEAR. That fear killed what we had. I am not writing to try and convince you to take me back. I understand you don't want a girlfriend and all the hassle it brings. I just really wanted to apologize for being an a**wipe and losing you because I was afraid ( I am not saying you are an a wipe , but its good to bash yourself a little bit because he has had it up to here ^) I wish you well in life and I will always care. I know I blew it. Just know I am going to get help for my problem. I would like to be friends someday if you are ready . I know they don't advise friendship but I just wanted you to know I am not a horrible person , just a confused one . Instead of being afraid of your friend , I would like to meet her to apolgize for anything I did to cause problems for all of us. Maybe we can all get together someday and hang out. I know you don't believe that about me but I am going to change for MYSELF and my future. Thanks for being in my life. Judy I know some may disagree. Some may say NO he screwed OP . Actually though had OP been in a good place in her mind , she might have been able to believe in him , maybe be invited to things . But she was who she was and this is the result * mostly * of her insecurity. I know , I know , Joel ( whatever his name is ) had no right to be hanging around the hot fox but he was actually running away from OP to not have to listen to her . He just wanted out. It does not make what he did right to hurt OP by hanging out with the girl so much but he was operating on disgust and trying to get away. Its all pretty simplified here. OP must learn to trust. Of course with bf hanging around the hottie , that did not make it easy. OP starts over. Gets help. Finds love within herself . Operates from that point on..
Cherry Blossom 35 Posted May 30, 2008 Posted May 30, 2008 I disagree. I don't think she did anything wrong. He was hanging out more with another chick. Her instincts were absolutely right. I have to agree with this. You will feel secure and cared for when you are with someone who is really into you. That's what a good relationship is. He was hanging out with another girl, who has admitted he has an attraction to. She felt off balance because he was creating that scenario. She may insecurity issues to work on but I see this pretty plainly.
SouthernT Posted May 30, 2008 Posted May 30, 2008 This is the most sensible thing that you said in the whole thread. Learn from this- insecurity and possesiveness in women are a huge turnoff for guys. We live and learn (hopefully) Good luck next time around. Where in the world are women supposed to draw the line between being secure and being disrespected in this case? Someone please explain that to me....
Author confuzed25 Posted May 30, 2008 Author Posted May 30, 2008 what do you think about me emailing him back? say something like "i know you said there was no reason for me to respond to your email but there are a few things that you are misunderstanding and i need to get it off my chest." Then tell him that i was NOT being insecure, instead i was refusing to be disrespected. It is never right to hang out more with another girl than your own girlfriend....not only were you spending more time talking to and hanging out with her, but i was also never invited along. I realize that i was right for being angry with you and that my instincts were right when i knew something was going on because you even said in your email that you are attracted to her and you said "im not saying i would never date her." Which means that you know you have feelings for her and shes someone you can see yourself being with. You finally admitted it. That is not cool when you have a girlfriend! I was in no way being insecure, i just know what i want and deserve from a relationship and i wasnt getting it from you.
zicke Posted May 30, 2008 Posted May 30, 2008 Do not email him back. His email to you was condescending and rude. You are not insecure, in fact, most people would question why their boyfriend/girlfriend was hanging out with some other person of the opposite sex instead of their SO. He is a complete jerk for putting the blame on you for this whole scenario. He knew exactly what he was doing and even when you said something to him he denied it, and he did it in front of you! Lose his number--if he would rather hang with a person who makes bad life decisions, let him. God--what an ass. if you must email him, tell him that any secure person would be off kilter by his actions. He wasn't making a secret of his attraction to the other chick. Let her have him. You can do better. And spikeychick and mary3 are waaay off in their assessments. Way off.
Author confuzed25 Posted May 30, 2008 Author Posted May 30, 2008 i was starting to think that i did something wrong and i was insecure and i was the one in the wrong here. still havent decided if im going to send that email or not....i really just want to stick up for myself. Do you think he was being fake when he said that i was a great girl and hes very glad he met me? And when he said there are no hard feelings and wants to stay in touch? Or does he think im some crazy psycho? It hurt pretty bad when he said there was no reason to even respond to his email...and i think he is madder than he lets on because he said "there is no reason to move forward after all the things you said...yeah i have heard enough." Sounds like he is pretty PO'd at me
Mary3 Posted May 31, 2008 Posted May 31, 2008 I'm sorry but I respectfully disagree that OP NOT being insecure. The bf was totally wrong , yes , about hanging out with the hottie behind OP's back..but some of you here are MISSING the main point. The bf/gf were going along pretty well ( unless there are more examples of insecurity we have not been privy to ) until the negative factor ( hottie ) came into the picture. THAT started her getting upset ( rightly so ) and she reacted with everything she had. But the plain facts are : Bf was losing feelings ( deducting feelings ) EVERY time OP did something to disway him from seeing the hottie. The more she protested the more it drove the bf away. Because if OP was secure in her self she would have not done everything she DID which caused the chain reaction to the end .. Example : BF :Hey Sheila is coming over tonight OP: Oh cool , whats planned ? BF : Well I thought we could play ( pick a game ) and we can have some beers . OP : Okay that sounds like fun Hottie : ( Comes over , obviously very pretty . meets OP ) "Hi . I'm Hottie Helena . " OP : Hey nice to meet you. ( They all chit chat , play games , drink beers and then hottie goes home , unless hottie is drunk and she sleeps on the couch. ) What did Bf just learn about his OP ? That she is cool with hanging out with Shelia , everyone has a good time and Shelia heads home . Bf realizes OP is cool with this and invites hottie back and they all do stuff together again. But the way this went down was like this : He senses OP gf does not like Shelia as she has met her , sees Shelia is gorgeous and feels threatened. So BF digs hanging out with Shelia but gets flack from OP . He decides to see Shelia , but not around OP. Op gets upset . Confused and hurt. The fear begins . She beats down BF over and over ,. BF protests that he just wants to hang out with Shelia and that OP gets upset. So what does OP do ?. Gets MORE upset. A pattern is established. BF finds multiple excuses to get away from OP. They hit the last straw and its over....(I Might be wrong about the way the beggining of meeting Sheilia went down but this I guess is somewhat close ) I used to ( bf and I ) have our good cute friend B over like everyday and we all had fun and played UNO and used to drink . It was sooo much fun we did it almost everyday. And yea I did have a little crush on him but would never disrespect bf or guy because they were close friends. Why ruin what cool friendship we had by trying to sleep with B ? See we are human , we can be with someone and find someone else * cute * but WE are ultimately responsible for our own actions. By the way I was like 20 years old at the time. Yea young... BF at the time did not feel threatened. I was on good behavior. We all really got along. OP will not get that chance in this relationship. If she works on feeling secure in her next relationship , if she has a guy who has lots of male and female friends , then she must adapt. Those who say Yea right , now he's attracted to hottie. Of course he is. 99 men in the room WOULD be ! He wasn't going to cross the line. But he was accused of possibly crossing it too many times. Now if he wants he can see hottie all he wants. His threats of wanting to sleep with her will likely come true now if hottie is attracted to him. I know people still disagree. But its our REACTIONS that kill simple friendships. My reaction to old bf still diggin his x gf was for ME to drive him away. If I could have kept my jealousy in check maybe we might still be together. But either way , if someone wants someone else , there is never anything you can do about it....I learned alot from that. Now if a guy has lots of friends . I don't get jealous. ( I've changed alot since back then ) The quickest way to turn a guy off is to demand he stop seeing a friend , either that be guy or girl. While I may have a few close friends , my next bf could have TONS of friends and I need to decide if I can trust him enough and the answer will be YES. If a man is a player , then he is a player. Whether he lies to you about his true intentions , keeping him from someone , such as a hot friend , will only build resentment. Get right with yourself, If your guy plans on sleeping with ANYONE then he does not deserve you anyway. But while you are with him , driving him away with nagging and threats is not the answer either...
Author confuzed25 Posted June 1, 2008 Author Posted June 1, 2008 oh why did i ever doubt my decision to end it with him....what a scum bag! today i saw a comment she left on his myspace last night at 1:30 in the morning saying "im coming over to climb into bed with you now." he tried to tell me nothing was going on with them and that they are just good friends but 5 days after we break up and she is sleeping in his bed...and im sure this was not the first time!
Mary3 Posted June 1, 2008 Posted June 1, 2008 oh why did i ever doubt my decision to end it with him....what a scum bag! today i saw a comment she left on his myspace last night at 1:30 in the morning saying "im coming over to climb into bed with you now." he tried to tell me nothing was going on with them and that they are just good friends but 5 days after we break up and she is sleeping in his bed...and im sure this was not the first time! You should not beat yourself over this. I want you to LEARN from this , just as I did. Your bf has alot of culpability on his shoulders. He was attracted to her all along and it seems she was to him too. In their little world , you were the distraction that kept them apart. They are together now because they want to be. I would strongly stop yourself from reading his Myspace. At least for now. Not for the next 3 months. Then 3 months from now go on there and you will likely see the infatuation stage has died down. There are going to be ALOT of lovey dovey stuff on their pages. Please shut your account down , or block him or her. This is trouble. I actually was going onto a certain guys page and watched their LOVE unfold..The * difference * ? I knew he was a user and jerk by then.. so when the unsuspecting girl started out with HUGE amounts of pics of them ( it didnt bother me, I actually chuckled and shook my head ) because I knew he was going to try and use her to pay his rent and was very irresponsible.. I watched their love unravel too....It didnt take long for that to happen. She would post happy faces and then miserable faces...lol. But for you : If your bf or any man eyes a woman and wants her, they may be in denial and fight it , staying loving and honest to you. *But* if that person has a roving eye , wants that girl real bad and you are nagging them , well eventually their * true * side will come out. They are either faithful or not. I believe their was touching and playing around while you were with him. It drove him over the edge ( at her excitement of course ) and she got your man. Best to move on from this. Oh and they KNOW you are reading their comments. Girls LOVE to announce how much they like someone and all the funny sexy things. She is really enjoying this all... Your job is realize he was not right for you and you were not right for him. Move from that fact. Likely its a HUGE ego boost to be with this hot girl. Man and nature....always going to happen.
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