underpants Posted May 29, 2008 Posted May 29, 2008 Chin up Mr. Y. Watch swingers. Get some needed rest. Work on getting your mojo back and then work on learning to invest your feelings in someone more deserving next time. Shoot for a heathy relationship and work on becoming that better version of yourself that will attract someone genuine. One day you will honestly look back and laugh and say..."what was I thinking?" "Your so money and you don't even know it."
underpants Posted May 29, 2008 Posted May 29, 2008 She just texted me!!!!! Mr. Wonderful told her to get her **** out because of my e-mail!!!!! YES!!!!! I ****ING WIN!!!!! Darn, Just when I thought there was a tiny bit of hope. Mr. Y. Don't answer the text or call her. Let her stew. This is your day. Keep her out of it. Deal?
LikeCharlotte Posted May 29, 2008 Posted May 29, 2008 She just texted me!!!!! Mr. Wonderful told her to get her **** out because of my e-mail!!!!! YES!!!!! I ****ING WIN!!!!! I don't generally think revenge is a good idea but *high fives* Good Job. She needed a reality check.
LikeCharlotte Posted May 29, 2008 Posted May 29, 2008 Don't answer her. No matter what. Nothing. Disappear and move on.
foxh1234 Posted May 29, 2008 Posted May 29, 2008 Don't answer her. No matter what. Nothing. Disappear and move on. This won't happen and we all know it. I really wish he would listen but I highly doubt it.
serendip Posted May 29, 2008 Posted May 29, 2008 She just texted me!!!!! Mr. Wonderful told her to get her **** out because of my e-mail!!!!! YES!!!!! I ****ING WIN!!!!! Did you text her back "I miss you, I love you..you can stay with me" </I hope not>
v33 Posted May 29, 2008 Posted May 29, 2008 Don't reply! Don't dont!!! I know you are desperate to get her back or get some affection from her, but this guy could very well be bluffing. If you answer her you weaken your position! Be patient. Take your time. See what she does. If she runs from this guy she will be texting the hell out of you, but if you look like a doormat she will likely be turned on by Mr.Wonderful taking a stand. Women love that ****. Don't be weak. Observe and wait!
serendip Posted May 29, 2008 Posted May 29, 2008 turn off your phone and leave it off all night. she will be calling and you will be tempted to answer soon
underpants Posted May 29, 2008 Posted May 29, 2008 No! I'm not replying! She just texted me again that I'm the ****tiest person she's ever met! Good for you. You are rubber and she is glue. Whatever she texts bounces off you and sticks to her like glue. She is lashing out because she got busted. Next she will want to feel validated and like she is wanted, or you to feel sorry for her. She might even try to use your words against you. Don't you fall for it man. Don't respond and don't answer. This should be your motto for the next week. Tonight is Mr. Y's night. Did you rent that movie?
tealeafbud Posted May 29, 2008 Posted May 29, 2008 So YYY, are you going to email me that mp3 file? I wanna hear that shyt
tealeafbud Posted May 29, 2008 Posted May 29, 2008 Wow. I thought that the best revenge was living a long and happy life well without the ex. I guess getting incriminating evidence and presenting it to their new love interest is better. Can't do very well on the blood pressure though. Go figure.
LikeCharlotte Posted May 29, 2008 Posted May 29, 2008 She is IRATE. She just texted me again saying I'm an ******* and I'm a loser. Go out and change your number. Ignore. You win. Keep the win and ignore her!
underpants Posted May 29, 2008 Posted May 29, 2008 She is IRATE. She just texted me again saying I'm an ******* and I'm a loser. Again, You are rubber and she is glue. It might be best to turn the phone off for a while. Those messages will be there later (or tomorrow) when you turn it back on. Take a big clean breath. Maybe go for a walk outside. You are feeling the anxiety that comes from flipping the script. Every time the phone rings you are going to jump and look at it. Just turn it off for a bit. That should help the anxiety a little. I say, put in the movie and create a Swingers Thread. I would love to re visit that flick.
LikeCharlotte Posted May 29, 2008 Posted May 29, 2008 BTW Y, I'm really proud of you. Keep it up. Don't answer her. She'll cool off and go crawling to Mr. Wonderful and he can give her the kick to the curb she needs!
tealeafbud Posted May 29, 2008 Posted May 29, 2008 She called and let it ring real fast to make sure I didn't change my number. Then she called back, and I didn't answer. I'm scared this bitch is gonna come after me! You're lucky she doesn't know any professional hitmen. Ah well, maybe well finally see some closure to this story.
justine4 Posted May 29, 2008 Posted May 29, 2008 I just sent Mr. Wonderful a nice, friendly e-mail for his birthday. I attached my ex's incriminating voicemails as an MP3. heh 'Nice' birthday suprise for a guy whose only problem is to be going out with a girl who 1) is likely to mess him about anyway in the future (going by her past exp) 2) has a you as an ex WISE UP YYY!!! All this hurt you are feeling is completely understandable, but the bitterness is going to eat you up from the inside, and the main person who is going to suffer is yourself. You have to get past this phase. Anger can be good, but the intensity of your posts and vendictiveness of your actions and words, really aren't going to help anyone, least of all yourself. Maybe talking to someone who is professionally able to help you work through this difficult period in your life would be an idea?
AGENT 99 Posted May 29, 2008 Posted May 29, 2008 So what happens when she texts you again and says Mr Wonderful forgives her and is letting her back in? Because that IS a possibility. What then? All your ammo is used up........are you finally going to move on or draw out the drama? You already showed her you are a vindictive ex....so time to cut your losses NOW.
frd150 Posted May 29, 2008 Posted May 29, 2008 So what happens when she texts you again and says Mr Wonderful forgives her and is letting her back in? Because that IS a possibility. What then? All your ammo is used up........are you finally going to move on or draw out the drama? You already showed her you are a vindictive ex....so time to cut your losses NOW. Well then they deserve each other. If I found out something like that the to the curb with her. You see I leave the office for a while and look what I miss. Ignore her dude. Enjoy the day:). Done and Done.
frd150 Posted May 29, 2008 Posted May 29, 2008 I DON'T want her back, and I'm NOT EVER responding! If I ever wanted her back, I wouldn't have done this. That was the point. Even if Mr. Wonderful takes her back, he will never be able to completely trust her, just like I wasn't able to. I am done. I get it. Let her be his problem.
tealeafbud Posted May 30, 2008 Posted May 30, 2008 I just e-mailed Mr. Wonderful a two-page synopsis of the entire last week. heh Triple, I respect you posting on LS and sharing your rants, but you need to realize that even though you may have "accomplished" a dirty deed, you have not won by any means. All you've done is taken some incriminating evidence and basically "tattle taled" on your ex. You definitely need change your attitude because a lot of your rants show your maturity which isn't very appealing right now.
vivrantflo Posted May 31, 2008 Posted May 31, 2008 Keep that immature crap up, and you're gonna find yourself in trouble with the law VERY soon. STOP feeling sorry for yourself, and get over the fact that she's gone. What is going through your head writing another man, about your ex?? Whats wrong with you? You're not accomplishing anything. You're making matters worse. Get a damn grip, and relax man. Let her go. Be pissed if you want to be pissed, but don't use contact with your ex, or her man, as an outlet. Damn dude.. lift weights, go to the gym, spar with a punching bag... let it all out in a healthy way. All these games, and riff raff nonsense is making you look sad/desparate/juvenile/pathetic not just to her, or her man.. but to us, as your support system. Get yourself together... re-attach your pair, and MOVE ON from her.
Nevermind Posted May 31, 2008 Posted May 31, 2008 NO. You have no business with him whatsoever. Let go. He will not want to talk to you.
purplepoodle Posted May 31, 2008 Posted May 31, 2008 This is just sad. What on earth would make you want to add him to your contacts list??!!!! It's time to MOVE ON!!!!! We are all hurting here, but there comes a point where you have to start taking it like an adult and you are way past that point. It's time to grow up dude.
sid3 Posted May 31, 2008 Posted May 31, 2008 No mature adult would beg to be someone's lowly doormat again. It appears as though Y is a twelve year old, maybe literally, defintely emotionally.
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