Author WHY WHY WHY Posted May 27, 2008 Author Posted May 27, 2008 I am afraid that she is either going to dog me, not call me again, or call me and tell me that it's not a good idea. I told her last night, that if I don't hear from her, I'm not picking her up. I hate this. I just want to SEE her. That's all I want. PLEASE let it happen.
Author WHY WHY WHY Posted May 27, 2008 Author Posted May 27, 2008 Why do you want to see her? I can't help that I love her, okay. I suck. Whatever. I haven't seen her in months. I would at least like some closure to this, at the very least.
serendip Posted May 27, 2008 Posted May 27, 2008 I'm sposed to be picking her up tomorrow. I think you should show up with roses and an engagement ring...that will show her that you are not a doormat
Nevermind Posted May 27, 2008 Posted May 27, 2008 Well, believe the queen of hurting herself by not letting go: it won't give you closure. But maybe you need to hit rock bottom to be able to end it. It's tough, but apparently you can't not do it. So...good luck. I am wishing you closure, not another round with her.
Lookingforward Posted May 27, 2008 Posted May 27, 2008 Y....listen to these people...EVERYone is saying don't DO this to yourself... The only "closure" you are going to get from this R is what you give yourself... FGS man, let it GO already
frd150 Posted May 27, 2008 Posted May 27, 2008 I predict the next Crazy Ivan will be to port Yes, "the only thing you can do is shut down,go dead, and make like a whole in the water." Translation dissapear and stay away from her.
Author WHY WHY WHY Posted May 27, 2008 Author Posted May 27, 2008 If I don't hear from her again, I'm going to call Mr. Wonderful and tell him EVERYTHING! I'm going to tell him that I'm supposed to be picking her up from the airport, but decided not to. I have incriminating voicemails and text messages! So she'd better call...
carhill Posted May 27, 2008 Posted May 27, 2008 OP, he won't care. My bet is she's just a receptacle to him. Just as you are (of a different sort) to her. Trust me, I've been you. I know all the moves.
Trialbyfire Posted May 27, 2008 Posted May 27, 2008 If I don't hear from her again, I'm going to call Mr. Wonderful and tell him EVERYTHING! I'm going to tell him that I'm supposed to be picking her up from the airport, but decided not to. I have incriminating voicemails and text messages! So she'd better call... Okay. Chill. You're one big bag of emotional angst. Control yourself and stop letting her call the shots. You will not pick up the phone if she calls. You will send her a text that says you're not picking her up at the airport and that you have other conflicting plans. If she responds, ignore it. This way, she can no longer play you like a fish. Step away from the drama!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
tealeafbud Posted May 27, 2008 Posted May 27, 2008 If I don't hear from her again, I'm going to call Mr. Wonderful and tell him EVERYTHING! I'm going to tell him that I'm supposed to be picking her up from the airport, but decided not to. I have incriminating voicemails and text messages! So she'd better call... Dude, the best revenge is living a healthy and long life without her. I think it's time for you to start taking that revenge.
Author WHY WHY WHY Posted May 27, 2008 Author Posted May 27, 2008 So she calls, and her flight is magically rescheduled. Yeah... I WENT OFF on her. I told her if she doesn't show up here tomorrow, to never ever contact me again. I went on a long rant, just imagine one of my posts. I really let her have it. She seemed kinda surprised. I scraped up all my remaining pride and dignity from the floor, and made a tiny little barrier. You should see it. But anyway, I don't even feel the same as I did earlier. Just more LIES. I don't even WANT to see her anymore, but if she calls, I'll let her come over I guess. It'll just be to yell at her now though. The hatred outweighs the love by far now. If she doesn't call, that would be the best thing that could happen. Oh yeah, it's Mr. Wonderful's birthday tomorrow, so this will be a factor.
Trialbyfire Posted May 27, 2008 Posted May 27, 2008 So much chest beating, so little return. You're still letting her treat you like a doormat. I scraped up all my remaining pride and dignity from the floor, and made a tiny little barrier. You should see it. This I admit, was funny. At least you admit it.
justaman99 Posted May 27, 2008 Posted May 27, 2008 I WENT OFF on her. I told her if she doesn't show up here tomorrow, to never ever contact me again. I went on a long rant, just imagine one of my posts. I really let her have it. so you yelled at her and did all these bad things. This relationship is DEAD dude. totally and way beyond dead. it's consuming you now way beyond being able to function well for yourself. But anyway, I don't even feel the same as I did earlier. Just more LIES. I don't even WANT to see her anymore, but if she calls, I'll let her come over I guess. It'll just be to yell at her now though. The hatred outweighs the love by far now. So you dont want to see her anymore but if she calls you will see her? come on. THINK Oh yeah, it's Mr. Wonderful's birthday tomorrow, so this will be a factor. How do you know these things? you are obsessed YYY, or Triple Y or WHY WHY WHY. You need to get a grip for your own health. If you're ever going to be able to find someone in your life, that woman will want someone that is emotionally together and stable that has a handle on things. You need to seek some help and for the 54th time don't pick her up at the airport. Don't do anything. It's your best shot at getting over it and finally having a sack!
frd150 Posted May 27, 2008 Posted May 27, 2008 If only the OP read Tom Clancy... If only Tom Clancy read this:D.
frd150 Posted May 27, 2008 Posted May 27, 2008 Yx3, Ok, what now is your goal? If its to win her back then you have to back off. No yelling,picking her up,nothing. Dissapear. What your doing now is validating her actions...every single one of them. IMO her actions do not deserve a second chance. Trust me all the love in the world will not bring her back but negative actions will shure drive her further away. Like tealeaf said live a long and healthy life and I say live it well.
Lookingforward Posted May 27, 2008 Posted May 27, 2008 Ya know Y, you remind me eerily of a very bad episode I had once (many many years ago and I'm not proud of it) where I actually called an ex and ended up yelling at him "I love you , you B$%^& !!!" See how stupid that sounds ???
v33 Posted May 28, 2008 Posted May 28, 2008 Ok YYY, you need to find a torrent of the Carlos Xuma Audio Book "Secrets of the Alpha Man". Give you a different perspective on how to act and will maybe help you see that you deserve a better woman than this. No guy should have to go through this crap.
tealeafbud Posted May 28, 2008 Posted May 28, 2008 Win her back? Validating her actions? **** HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm sick of this ****!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! dude, just to switch gears a little bit, why don't you tell the LS community about yourself. Take a break from ranting about your situation and how much you hate her. For right now, I personally would like to know more about you. Who is this YYY, Triple Y, Why Why Why, person and what is interesting about him. For example, do you like sports, what's your favorite sports team, do you like movies, do you like certain cuisines, do you cook, do you like art, music, photography? And what is unique about you. Think of it as an exercise for yourself. And if anyone else wants to post something unique about themselves, feel free.
purplepoodle Posted May 28, 2008 Posted May 28, 2008 I like to sing School House Rock songs in the shower:bunny:
LikeCharlotte Posted May 28, 2008 Posted May 28, 2008 dude, just to switch gears a little bit, why don't you tell the LS community about yourself. Take a break from ranting about your situation and how much you hate her. For right now, I personally would like to know more about you. Who is this YYY, Triple Y, Why Why Why, person and what is interesting about him. For example, do you like sports, what's your favorite sports team, do you like movies, do you like certain cuisines, do you cook, do you like art, music, photography? And what is unique about you. Think of it as an exercise for yourself. And if anyone else wants to post something unique about themselves, feel free. As always TLB you are thinking. Listen to him Y! You've got to start thinking about your health.
tealeafbud Posted May 28, 2008 Posted May 28, 2008 I like to sing School House Rock songs in the shower:bunny: Purple! I loved schoolhouse rock songs. I definitely need to relive some of those. "I'm just a Bill" was awesome! Anyhoo, not to hijack this thread, but I'm sure YYY won't mind. I caved in on the bet. I sent a message to Mel also. So soon I'll be posting my message and putting up that "L" pic on my myspace for a span of 24 hours, not a second more. hahah
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