Lionblade Posted May 26, 2008 Posted May 26, 2008 You do realize that a female who says they want to marry a guy after the first week or so of dating sound extremely clingy and would make any sane man run away right? If you looked back on it and say it's infuation then at least you've learnt your lesson but you just rationalize it by saying that it's how you truly felt. Best thing to do would be to just move on; he probably said the thing about Iraq to just get away from the relationship. ATM, it sounds like you're very emotional and you should bring stablity to yourself before you engage in another relationship.
Tabatha Posted May 27, 2008 Posted May 27, 2008 You do realize that a female who says they want to marry a guy after the first week or so of dating sound extremely clingy and would make any sane man run away right? If you looked back on it and say it's infuation then at least you've learnt your lesson but you just rationalize it by saying that it's how you truly felt. Best thing to do would be to just move on; he probably said the thing about Iraq to just get away from the relationship. ATM, it sounds like you're very emotional and you should bring stablity to yourself before you engage in another relationship. We were dating for almost two months, when I told him I had a dream about it. If I didn't have that dream, I wouldn't have brought it up. It was one of those few dreams that you actually remember when you wake up and seemed so real. Could have been that everytime I was watching t.v. with him a commercial/movie/tv show would have something to do with engagement/wedding/wedding gowns. I don't believe saying he is joining the Army is his way of getting out of/away from an a relationship with me. He's already out of it. He doesn't have to make excuses to not be in a relationship. It is what it is. He's real straight forward.
LikeCharlotte Posted May 27, 2008 Posted May 27, 2008 It is very healthy for you to be getting closure and being honest with one another. Your concern is legitimate but he is his own man. It will be hard but you will have to face it head on and be prepared to support his decision. Be strong and supportive because that is the best thing you can do for both of you. Good luck Tabatha.
Tabatha Posted May 27, 2008 Posted May 27, 2008 It is very healthy for you to be getting closure and being honest with one another. Your concern is legitimate but he is his own man. It will be hard but you will have to face it head on and be prepared to support his decision. Be strong and supportive because that is the best thing you can do for both of you. Good luck Tabatha. Thanx Charlotte!! I will always support him in whatever he does. Like he supported me when I was going through rough times with my family. The reason I fell in love with him so easily is because he stood by me and never ran when my family came down hard on him, like my previous ex did before him. My family started giving him crap a week and a half after we started dating and he stuck by me. Of course he was always concerned for my health and safety and always wondered why I put myself through it when I could have easily walked away also. Thats Love, and I would defend, stand by, and support him all over again if need be. My family is unbelievably close minded. When one thinks one way, they all follow. I swear they follow the herd. My ex is not perfect, but I don't believe anybody is. We all have our flaws. One thing for sure-he was always caring, loving, and an all around great guy to me. With material possesions, and money excluded-Him being a wonderful boyfriend to me, should've been the only thing that mattered. But my fam never saw it that way.
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