mlchris2 Posted May 30, 2008 Posted May 30, 2008 well wouldnt you know it... i fell back into her trap and now she's back to NC. I'm taking the popular advice and hittin the road. pissed me off. She's a nice girl, one worth keeping, but this game effin sucks. PEACE for now!!!
torranceshipman Posted May 31, 2008 Posted May 31, 2008 Sounds like she has another guy in the picture and she likes him, and likes you too, but blows other people off for guy #1 if he calls/etc....thats why she's so intermittent in her contact with you...also, she seemed a bit casual with her comment about seeing how it goes.... ...she's keeping you as an option, don't take that - looks like you've decided to walk anyway so good on you, but I'd say keep strong and don't give in again even if she gets in touch...good luck dude.
AndyW Posted May 31, 2008 Posted May 31, 2008 I don't know what she has or doesn't have but she is being shady. When people are shady just hit the road. I know alot about people being shady. Instead of sitting there and taking it, go find someone that doesn't play games, someone who respects your feelings, and someone that is a grow adult. If she is shady already things will only get worse. Good people and good partners are not shady.
Author mlchris2 Posted May 31, 2008 Author Posted May 31, 2008 she is def being shady. first she tells me she wants to be more than FWB... we talk all the time... then the last 2 weeks, nothing. I thought she was different. I rly like her and that what's hard about the whole situation. Your right thou, shady isnt good in a relationship. I am glad I found out sooner than later fo sho.
sid3 Posted May 31, 2008 Posted May 31, 2008 That's true, it will only get worse. I recently ignored the shady/flakey signs and got too invested. It was my first encounter with silent treatment, not fun. Sounds like your situation is somewhat the same, she'll probably pop back up and have you thinking she's interested. Don't feed her ego.
Mary3 Posted June 2, 2008 Posted June 2, 2008 Let me see if I have this right : You are having sexual relations with her ? She says its all good and to hang on ? Then you in a FWB and she is not exclusively sleeping with you. If you have not been intimate and she is not returning your calls then you still lose...
Author mlchris2 Posted June 2, 2008 Author Posted June 2, 2008 Mary, YES andd YES well I just dont get her. She told me she doesnt think of me as FWB and wants more, but it's obvious that she's got different motives. As much as I dont want to, I'm walking away... if she's truly interested, she will be back. I cant discuss things with her... she wont answer my calls, emails, or txt.... oh well... live and learn, right?
hip chick Posted June 2, 2008 Posted June 2, 2008 So she was to come to visit you and she flaked that off? Forget that chick.
Mary3 Posted June 2, 2008 Posted June 2, 2008 Take this to heart : She is sleeping with others too...and um ewwww....okay nuff said :sick:
Author mlchris2 Posted June 3, 2008 Author Posted June 3, 2008 needless to say, after a bottle of booze and a good nights sleep... I'm over it!!! thanks for the support and the shoulder everybody. plenty of fish in the sea, right?
Mary3 Posted June 4, 2008 Posted June 4, 2008 needless to say, after a bottle of booze and a good nights sleep... I'm over it!!! thanks for the support and the shoulder everybody. plenty of fish in the sea, right? Heck yea !
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