BrownBear Posted November 2, 2008 Posted November 2, 2008 We broke up on the 26th October 2007 - Havent spoken to her for a couple of months. Im over her - I have moved on - but I do still think of her every day. She changed my life ...
MichiganMan222 Posted November 2, 2008 Posted November 2, 2008 Two days, but its easy for me now. Found out she is with someone already. I stay away from contact like an electric fence. HOWEVER, if she were to contact me, I think it would be VERY hard to not reply. I'm not counting on her doing that so, so I should be good.
lofi_tokyo Posted November 2, 2008 Posted November 2, 2008 3 weeks officially! Its not much, but it feels good! The more time that passes the closer I get to being over him! If he wanted to call, he could, but I'm glad he hasn't. If he did he wouldn't get an answer!
nickelinadime Posted November 5, 2008 Posted November 5, 2008 4 days. Finally, she goes more than 2 days without contacting me! I think she's getting the picture! I miss her so much sometimes, but I'm happier without the drama. She's not over me at all, I'm not over her somewhat. It's a mess.
ProudToBeMeAgain Posted November 5, 2008 Posted November 5, 2008 6 months for me!! But he broke NC 2 months ago. I happily DIDN't answer his lame email.... "I only hope you're doing fine".
lofi_tokyo Posted November 5, 2008 Posted November 5, 2008 3 weeks officially! Its not much, but it feels good! The more time that passes the closer I get to being over him! If he wanted to call, he could, but I'm glad he hasn't. If he did he wouldn't get an answer! Funny reading that now... 2 days NC. I spoke to him like, an hour after posting that! Doh!
Sysyphus28 Posted November 5, 2008 Posted November 5, 2008 you scolded me for talking to mine! It is hard to cut them out of our lives. They find a way to worm back in. If only they came with apoligies and the same attitude as when we met them. They are different though,and these "old" strangers are not out friends.
Ingenue Posted November 7, 2008 Posted November 7, 2008 125 days today. That's about 17/18 weeks. Only a few more months and I can officially start dating.
lofi_tokyo Posted November 7, 2008 Posted November 7, 2008 like, 12 hrs. Woo! Someday it will be 12 days, then 12 weeks, then 12 months!
SgtPepper Posted November 7, 2008 Posted November 7, 2008 I can't do NC because we still live together due to financial reasons and there is a child (and dogs) in the picture. However, I am trying REALLY hard not to do the casual emails/texts that we have typically done during the work day. I miss that and it is really difficult after 8 years to stop, but I know it is something I need to do. Amazing how hard it can be to avoid a simple text. Maybe I should leave my cell phone in my glove compartment! With that being said, it is lunch time and I have avoided casual contact all morning, so that is something. Now I just need to go to lunch and fight the "just checking to see how your day is going" urge.
cashley Posted November 7, 2008 Posted November 7, 2008 OKAY..theres been contact latley- silly me, he hasnt changed .. I expect a call on Monday, and that should be the last. So starting now for me, theres NC. (he will call on monday for legal reasons) NC, thats what he deserves, and thats what I NEED. YAY! I feel empowered.
fran82 Posted November 8, 2008 Posted November 8, 2008 drunkenly reset the counter after a friends drunken hen do, 7 days ago! never got a response! just confirms everything i ever thought as true! he's such a disrespectful person! common courtesy doesn't cost a thing!
sultry33 Posted November 12, 2008 Posted November 12, 2008 68 days;) had to fight the urge to message him recently as i hate not having him in my life and i wanted to say sorry and that i was ok about him moving on... but i couldnt do it id like to forgive him but my heart wont let me:sick: heres to the next 68..
gwynieatpain Posted November 13, 2008 Posted November 13, 2008 A month of NC. Friends and family keep telling me that he will try contacting me one day. If it does happen, I hope someone can give me strength to ignore him completely, and kick him out of my life.
lofi_tokyo Posted November 16, 2008 Posted November 16, 2008 Gwyn and Emp, nicely done - I'm only at week two, and I nearly broke NC last night! OY! Common now, time for me to BE STRONG!
Tinkerbelll Posted November 16, 2008 Posted November 16, 2008 Today is Day 7 I really don't know at this time if he's ever going back.. We met in September, date for 1 month an an half.. Well, for me it was like a dream, for him I really don't know.. Then we started arguing, I sent him 4 sms the same day, asking him if it was over or not..never getting an answer back.. So I decided that the best thing to do is just disappear from his life.. I think he's not going to come back to me, but at least the day we'll see each other I'll be able to smile...
L-FUZZ Posted November 16, 2008 Posted November 16, 2008 Except for an accidental message my phone sent off(a week ago) after fixing my email account on my I-phone..that was meant to be sent as a joke while we were still dating back in MAY.. and it said "My ass" HA ha ,, how funny is that! ...i mean it was truely an accident.. i hope he saw the date on the message:o Anyways i hope that doesnt count as contact.. does it?
FF84 Posted November 29, 2008 Posted November 29, 2008 I'm over 3 weeks now. Still feel awful and still think about her 24/7. Been dreaming about her these last few nights too, finding it really tough right now. Especially seeing all the Christmas stuff everywhere and seeing couples doing Christmassy things tomorrow. Going to be a hard few weeks.
moonmoon Posted November 30, 2008 Posted November 30, 2008 haha thats hilarious L-FUZZ im on day 12 and broke down crying for the first time in a few days again today. I have been heavily contemplating calling her tomorrow because shes leaving for the holidays in two weeks and I want a casual meetup before that. having trouble seeing how NC has helped anything since Ive been as miserable as possible for the past two weeks.
Ingenue Posted December 4, 2008 Posted December 4, 2008 I stopped counting. My life is no longer measured in relation to how many days I have or have not spoken to the ex
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