bleh Posted April 8, 2008 Posted April 8, 2008 hey all, just an update! Everythings been a lot better recently started enjoying hanging out with my mates again (it was a bit of a task before and that sounds horrible but you guys know what i mean) anyways had a bit of a breakdown bout a week back and felt like i was possessed it was fun i assure you! anyways since that day everything has been honkey dorey, sure there are some hard times but im hoping im on the road to recovery. Anyways i have a question, if other women show interest in me is it wrong to get involved (on any level) whilst i am still in love with my ex. I know it will probably help a lot and even though at the moment i cant comprehend being with anyone else a lot of the opposite sex have been showing interest. I dont know, on one level i dont want to rebound and hurt anyone and in the end probably myself but then again i know personally i probably wont get over her untill i find someone else.... any thoughts are appreciated, hope your all doin ok!
cyabye Posted April 8, 2008 Posted April 8, 2008 Only you know if you're ready or not. If you admit you still love your ex wife maybe you should hold off on the new relationships (except friend level) until you get her out of your system. It's not fair to you or the other person if you are not over your ex yet. I don't think you can give yourself fully to someone new yet. I know it feels good to have some new interest but just be sure you are ready before you take the next step. Be true to yourself. Hope this helps, cyabye
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