tinker59 Posted April 8, 2008 Posted April 8, 2008 I booked my flight to Augusta, GA next month. Yesterday my husband got annoyed because I was asking about Julie, the college professor that he met at Soul Bar club last week. I saw on our phone bill that he has been calling her so he said he talks to her and wants her to be a female friend. So I apologized for asking. Then the weird thing happened, he called me back and asked me about going there and what clothes I should bring for the weather change. Then today, we talked n he said his training won't end for another 3 months and he goes to Korea for a year. I said I am excited to see him n he replied by saying, "I think it's a waste of money". I don't know if he has bipolar or what but it makes me crazy. I am trying too hard I ended the call by singing the song, "Babe I love you so and I just want you to know"...I love him and he said it back but I feel exhausted for trying so much. Maybe I should stop calling him? What do you think I should do? I want to prepare for the worse and try to accept that he is not the same man who left San Francisco 3 months ago. I think about him everyday despite all the things he has said to me. He said in January that nothing will break us apart but the attention that he is getting from the women in the club is hard for him to resist. He admitted that the other married female friend he had last month offered herself but he refused and he didn't want to elaborate what they did but he was sad when she left to get co-located with her husband who is also in the military. So his feelings of wanting to be free started then and this girl Julie is another story. I don't know what to think and it's going be another 80's night at the Soul Bar in Augusta this weekend. I will never know what will happen and I want to give up already but I still have some hope. Sometimes he is nice and caring and then he gets into the mood of being free when he is buzzed. What should I do?
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