sid33 Posted April 8, 2008 Posted April 8, 2008 I posted here about a week ago wondering if it was just me or if it was her...Clearly it is her. I have become the played. Oh I think she cares and she knows she has found a good guy. But her ignoring, and other testing is getting on my nerves. I don't have the patience for it. It is all about her being in control. I think it is Bull S**t... I'm smart enough not to settle in general, but I think she really believes I am just whipped and will put up with juvenile behavior. The silent treatment? um, maybe back in eighth grade lol! I don't want to be mean and break up with her. Maybe she will realize her game playing backfired? has that ever happened to anyone else? I think instead of letting her know she's been dumped, I will no longer show any interest and treat her the way she treats me. She makes me feel like a door mat, so I'm hoping she will see how inconsiderate it appears and realize it's too little too late. I'm thinking she will freak when she finds out I'm not sitting here pining over here(did that for a week) like one of the posters said in my other thread, if that's how it is this early in the relationship, imagine how it would be later on. Life's too short to spend it validating a controlling girl. I can do better..........Thanks for reading, any advice and support would be appreciated. Posting here is better for me than sending a nastygram, I may have gotten a little frustrated and hurt but I haven't become bitter why start now
Skies Posted April 8, 2008 Posted April 8, 2008 She would realize her loss some day. Girls are very controlling sometimes, just wanting to know how much you could put up with her. However that's not a solid and good base for a healthy relationship. You've done the right thing. Maybe have a beer or two to celebrate.
TheFonz Posted April 8, 2008 Posted April 8, 2008 Yeah just forget and ignore her. When will girls realize that their games are old and only work on insecere guys anyway? All the playing hard to get, withholding the sex, etc just make them about as much fun and likable as a well insert whatever unlikable thing here .
dreamergrl Posted April 8, 2008 Posted April 8, 2008 The silent treatment? um, maybe back in eighth grade lol! I don't want to be mean and break up with her. Maybe she will realize her game playing backfired? has that ever happened to anyone else? I think instead of letting her know she's been dumped, I will no longer show any interest and treat her the way she treats me. You're lowering yourself to her level. Now you are playing the same game she is. Don't say you don't want to be mean and not dump her because by just dropping off the face of the earth is what's mean. Just tell her it's over and move on instead of playing the same game.
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