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I am 16 and a sophomore in high school. I go to a fairly small school where everyone knows the ppl in their grade and also ppl from other grades. I do not have any friends that are girls nor do I really talk to any. I am shy pretty much only when it comes to girls. Anyway I am not the most popular kid. I dont have any friends that hang out with girls but I am friends with a lot of guys on my baseball team but they are a lot more popular than me so we dont hang out or anything but they have a lot of girl friends. Anyway there is this one girl who I would just like to become friends with. I dont know if she has a boyfriend I think she does but someone from a different school. Anyway she sits right behind me in Spanish. We know each other but I never really talk to her for some reason cuz I am shy around girls. So is it too late for me to become her friend? Will she think it is weird if I start talking to her since today and everyday I dont say a word to her usually? What should I do?

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im confused with all these grades!! lol

 

Hmm let me see lovie, i think you should start of with smiling at her when you see her for a few days. Then afteyour a few days smile and say hi every time you see her for a few days. Then after a few days smile and say 'hi my name is....,' then go with the conversation...unless she ignores you then just ignore her! Good luck sweet pea!

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You're only 16. That's perfectly normal. And no it's is not weird to talk to her and become friends.

 

Spanish class huh, don't you guys do group activities? Try to introduce yourself in spanish and start making jokes. You don't necessarily have to flirt with her but make her laugh!

 

But most importantly introduce yourself and get to know her!

 

Man up and don't think about what's going to happen. Just go with the flow!

 

Good luck bra

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