littlered30 Posted April 8, 2008 Posted April 8, 2008 I'll try to make this brief.I have been dating a guy for 2 months. We talked on the phone everyday but saw each other like once a week. He works alot. He has said that his mom likes me alot even though we hve not met yet but I have met some of his other family. I invited him to a family dinner a few wks ago. He didnt seem to enjoy himself and seemed to be in a hurry to leave. I only saw him for 2 hrs that day.I didnt see him at all that whole week. He dropped me off because he had a family obligation. He didnt call me that evening like he usually does so I calld him and he seemed moody and didnt seem to want to talk.I thanked him for coming and mentioned how I only got to see him for 2 hrs. It seemed tohave ticked him off so I was quick to get off the phone. He called me a few days later and left a voice mail wanting to know if I was still pissed off at him and if I held grudges than we could end this thing now.I called him back and left a vm apologizing for the misunderstanding and that I was not mad at him. I was disappointed that I wasnt able to see him longer but I understood he was busy. He called me a few days later but has not called since. I have called him a few times . I texted him 4 days ago and he sent a reply right away. I called him the next evening and he said he would try to call me the next day but hasnt. I dont plan to call him again. I will wait to see if he does. I am just very confused about all of this. He did mention that I reminded him of a few girlfriends that he had in the past but he should know by now that I am not bossy and controlling. I have tried tobe very nice to him since all of this happened but he hasnt budged. Any advice out there?
Trialbyfire Posted April 8, 2008 Posted April 8, 2008 He sounds like a guy who's freaking out about the pace of your relationship, since it appears to be meeting your family that triggered the withdrawal. Were there any jokes or comments made by your family, in reference to "the one", engagement, marriage, that kind of commitment discussion?
Author littlered30 Posted April 8, 2008 Author Posted April 8, 2008 There was were no jokes or mentions of marriage from my family.
Trialbyfire Posted April 8, 2008 Posted April 8, 2008 Then he sounds like a runaway. Some guys aren't ready to settle down and if their freedom is threatened, will withdraw.
TheFonz Posted April 8, 2008 Posted April 8, 2008 To be honest from what you said this guy sounds like an idiot and not that into you. He either thought the family dinner thing meant you two were in an exclusive relationship now or saw something that happened at the dinner that put him off. Best thing you can do is to write it off.
Trialbyfire Posted April 8, 2008 Posted April 8, 2008 To be honest from what you said this guy sounds like an idiot and not that into you. He either thought the family dinner thing meant you two were in an exclusive relationship now or saw something that happened at the dinner that put him off. Best thing you can do is to write it off. Will you stop agreeing with me. It's starting to freak me out.
ItsACaplypso Posted April 8, 2008 Posted April 8, 2008 SO not worth your time. Go find yourself a man without a vagina.
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