mint_tea Posted April 7, 2008 Posted April 7, 2008 My boyfriend broke up with me last week and we haven't talked since then. It was ugly. He said he didn't see himself changing and that he doesn't see things working out. It was ugly. He is stressing out a lot right now about not doing well in school, and his parents are making him transfer from the school he loves because of his major (incidentally we're at the same school, I transferred after meeting him but it had nothing to do with him going here). When he gets really stressed, he pushes me away and needs space. But I understand that, and I still love him. I IM'ed him a few minutes ago to apologize for how I acted when he broke up with me. Me: i just want to apologize for the way my anger came out when i called you Him: hey its alrite, i mean with the situation and all its understandable Me:i still care about you as a friend Him: i know and same here Me:can we act like we're friends, if nothing else for the sake of the frat <----[we're in an honors fraternity] Him: most def Him: hey iam going to lay down for a bit, but if you're on later i'll im you? Me: alright Him: alrite i'll ttyl Him: buh bye Me: bye Is there hope or is he just happy that I don't hate him? Is it possible he realizes he made a mistake? I mean, he was pretty emotional when he broke up with me, he was crying and hyperventilating. I know a lot of people in the frat are saying he's stupid for losing me, including his best friend. And it's REALLY out of character for him to say that he'll contact me. I mean, really really out of character! Should I leave him wondering and not be online tonight? (I was always too available).
Amy22 Posted April 8, 2008 Posted April 8, 2008 I wouldn't get my hopes up just because if he wants to stay friends it would just hurt you more to get your hopes up. I would try to move on and if he comes back great if not you haven't lost anything. I don't really know by the situation you posted if he will or not. I think it could go either way. I don't think I would make myself available to him by talking to him online. If he wanted me I would make him do the work and contact me. He may just be happy you two can be friends since it sounds like you two have some of the same friends.
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