child_of_isis Posted April 7, 2008 Posted April 7, 2008 Sounds more like drama to me. Drama is just as addicting you know."my logic has drowned in a sea of emotion"-Sting
Author comicgirl Posted April 7, 2008 Author Posted April 7, 2008 I'm tired of walking on eggshells with him afraid that he might take what I say wrong, when I would visit him and his W she would tell me not to antagonize him. We did fight a lot. Everything is someone elses fault in his life, I take full blame for the mistakes I made with him. I have apologized to him so many times over the past few days. It didn't change what I said though about ending it. I asked him what he wanted to do and he said couldn't say cause he couldn't make someone else have to be with him.
Author comicgirl Posted April 7, 2008 Author Posted April 7, 2008 You know, the other thing is that he coaches little league and he was mad that I wouldn't put my kids on his team. I told him that I didn't because I didn't want to see him all the time. That made him mad too. He said I should bring my kids to his house a couple times a week so he could teach them how to play ball. Internally this just sounded like a ploy to see me. Maybe I'm wrong. I still said no.
whichwayisup Posted April 7, 2008 Posted April 7, 2008 Your husband should be the one teaching HIS OWN kids how to play baseball, NOT the MM.
Author comicgirl Posted April 7, 2008 Author Posted April 7, 2008 Right. I've been sitting here all day telling myself over and over that it's done. think about something else. also being mad that i know he's seething over it. He pouts and then drinks a lot. really though, what could i expect out of this? He was telling me the first time we broke up (which he initiated) about how much he loves his wife, is in love with her etc. Before I ended it last night he was saying the same things. It pissed me off. Why would I think he actually cared about me? He never did anything for me to go out of his way to show it. Why would he be with me anyway if he is so in love with his wife? makes no sense. He just kept talking about how all I ever did was lie to him about even trivial things. I kept saying I was sorry. Maybe I was bad to him too by not giving him any straight answers
whichwayisup Posted April 7, 2008 Posted April 7, 2008 Focus that energy into your husband and kids. Stop trying to figure out what is going through his head. If you want it over, then end it and walk away, cut yourself OUT of their lives. Find new friends or get together with other friends that are in your life now..The more you focus on him, the more you'll not want to really let go and move on.
bentnotbroken Posted April 7, 2008 Posted April 7, 2008 Is it just me or does she sound like she is looking for reasons to explain away everything so that she can see him through those rose colored glasses again?
Author comicgirl Posted October 24, 2008 Author Posted October 24, 2008 I finally broke it off with MM by email on June 16. He got all pissy on me about it and over the summer things with me, him, and the W just went from bad to worse. She just got really nasty about all sorts of things with me. A couple of weeks ago, I was going to drive her kid and mine to a cheerleading camp in our town. 2 nights a week for 2 weeks. I as it turned out did not have the money cause I had my appendix out on Oct. 2nd and haven't worked. I told her I didn't have the money but would still drive her kid. She told me I was a bad mother cause I didn't sign my kids up and that I let her down all the time with stuff I say I'm going to do but don't. This led me to think about all the times I let her use my car, took her places, picked up her kid from school, and I gave her $100 in advance for her husband to do some drywall in my house cause she wanted $250 for him to do it. She told me Monday that she isn't sure she wants to be friends cause I let her down all the time. I did most of this stuff out of guilt but now that exMM, her, and I don't get along and I am sick of her bitch attitude about something minor like this cheerleading camp I feel like saying"You think I'm a bad person, ok, well I was screwing your old man, it was a crappy lay cause he drinks and you can keep the $100 as a stud fee. Now tell me how bad of a person I am." Keep thinking about telling her and how much she would be hurt but almost don't care at this point. I have nothing left but anger right now and I want to see her and him be a total mess. I hate them both and want them to be miserable.
Dark-N-Romantic Posted October 24, 2008 Posted October 24, 2008 Am I seriously in the Twilight Zone or is this woman actually trying to invoke sympathy for herself when she SHE IS SCREWING HER BEST FRIEND'S HUSBAND!?! Comic, you really are a comedian. You really have some issues you need to talk to a doctor about and I hope your friend finds out and comes for a light rough justice on you. It is bad when you screw someone else's spouse period, but to betray a friend in this manner? And people think I am wrong for saying "Hurray!" to stoning? You really need to get your head out of your behind, get over yourself, and leave this man alone. I can't believe you don't see how shameful you and arrogant you are coming across, let alone how nasty the situation you put yourself in is. If you want some honest advice, you need to just leave the friendship and the husband be. You have no right to them at all. You have no right to complain about how mad he got at you for dumping him because the relationship should not have been in the first place. Lastly, you need to stop and look at the path your traveling down before you become another statistic of an other woman being killed for her lack of morality and judgement of getting into a love relationship with a married person. DNR
bentnotbroken Posted October 24, 2008 Posted October 24, 2008 I finally broke it off with MM by email on June 16. He got all pissy on me about it and over the summer things with me, him, and the W just went from bad to worse. She just got really nasty about all sorts of things with me. A couple of weeks ago, I was going to drive her kid and mine to a cheerleading camp in our town. 2 nights a week for 2 weeks. I as it turned out did not have the money cause I had my appendix out on Oct. 2nd and haven't worked. I told her I didn't have the money but would still drive her kid. She told me I was a bad mother cause I didn't sign my kids up and that I let her down all the time with stuff I say I'm going to do but don't. This led me to think about all the times I let her use my car, took her places, picked up her kid from school, and I gave her $100 in advance for her husband to do some drywall in my house cause she wanted $250 for him to do it. She told me Monday that she isn't sure she wants to be friends cause I let her down all the time. I did most of this stuff out of guilt but now that exMM, her, and I don't get along and I am sick of her bitch attitude about something minor like this cheerleading camp I feel like saying"You think I'm a bad person, ok, well I was screwing your old man, it was a crappy lay cause he drinks and you can keep the $100 as a stud fee. Now tell me how bad of a person I am." Keep thinking about telling her and how much she would be hurt but almost don't care at this point. I have nothing left but anger right now and I want to see her and him be a total mess. I hate them both and want them to be miserable. Careful what you want for both of them, it's probable that you will share in that misery. You deserve whatever she has to dish and then some. I think, sleeping with her H entitles her to tell you what she thinks of you. If you don't like it, leave them both alone, otherwise, grin and bear it.
whichwayisup Posted October 24, 2008 Posted October 24, 2008 You aren't this woman's friend. Atleast not anymore - Maybe you were before your A, but once you slept with her husband, that friendship with her ended. I'm betting in some way she knows.... And, it would probably be best if you didn't do her any favours when it comes to her kids. You have your own to look after. Anyway, what about your husband?
Citizen Erased Posted October 24, 2008 Posted October 24, 2008 She's the bitch even though you screwed her husband? Are you bat $h!t crazy?
whichwayisup Posted October 24, 2008 Posted October 24, 2008 She told me Monday that she isn't sure she wants to be friends cause I let her down all the time Now take this opportunity and tell her goodbye. There's your out! Again, what about your husband??
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