jdjack127 Posted April 7, 2008 Posted April 7, 2008 I am 16 and a sophomore in high school. I go to a fairly small school where everyone knows all the ppl in their grade and also ppl from other grades. Anyway I do not talk to any girls and I dont think any like me or even notice me. I am not very popular. I am on the baseball team so I know a lot of cool guys who have a lot of girl friends but I am not close to any so I dont have anybody who can help me out. So how can I just like remake myself or whatever in girls eyes at school? I dont need a makeover or anything. My clothes are fine I just wear like American Eagle or sports stuff or whatever so thats fine. Its like I need to go back in time and make an effort to make friends with the girls at school. It seems like it is too late now b/c all the girls have already made their guy friends it seems and since I know all the girls I dont know how to become their friend b/c if I just go up to them and start talking it would feel awkward for me since I shoulda did that long ago.
AlwaysLost Posted April 7, 2008 Posted April 7, 2008 not sure how much help ill be but i felt as you do all thru HS. what i did was find something i loved and emmrsed (sp?) myself in that. i love drawing and painting and took every class i could. once people saw i had talent i gained more respect. find what u love and persue it whole heartedly. best of luck.
thehappycynic Posted April 7, 2008 Posted April 7, 2008 Girls love confidence. If you can show them that, it doesn't matter that you've waited till now.
DanielMadr Posted April 7, 2008 Posted April 7, 2008 I am 16 and a sophomore in high school. I go to a fairly small school where everyone knows all the ppl in their grade and also ppl from other grades. Anyway I do not talk to any girls and I dont think any like me or even notice me. I am not very popular. I am on the baseball team so I know a lot of cool guys who have a lot of girl friends but I am not close to any so I dont have anybody who can help me out. So how can I just like remake myself or whatever in girls eyes at school? I dont need a makeover or anything. My clothes are fine I just wear like American Eagle or sports stuff or whatever so thats fine. Its like I need to go back in time and make an effort to make friends with the girls at school. It seems like it is too late now b/c all the girls have already made their guy friends it seems and since I know all the girls I dont know how to become their friend b/c if I just go up to them and start talking it would feel awkward for me since I shoulda did that long ago. Why should it be awkward? If you wont feel awkward about it, then it wont be. What do you want? Be popular, social or get the girl? Trying to be popular.....lame. Trying to improve on lacking of social contact.....fine. Getting the girl......of course. "Hi, how is it going? I gonna go catching some frogs on Saturday night and I might need a hand. Interested?"
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