timmay Posted April 7, 2008 Posted April 7, 2008 i have this girl in my college class that keeps making eye contact with me and im wondering if she likes me? i have never been good with asking girls out... i guess i dont know really how. i feel like such in idot if i just go up to her and say hey ur cute would u like to go to dinner. i mean is that what you do with women? so my ? for you ppl is does she like me and how should i ask her out?
mlchris2 Posted April 7, 2008 Posted April 7, 2008 well there is only one way to find out the answer to your question... just ask her. If you need some advice. catch her after class and ask her simply if she'd like to go out sometime. If you dont know her name, introduce yourself and then ask. I think your an idiot if you dont ask. I can say that, becuase I used to have the same problem. Ive gained a big confidence boost after chatting on this forum and with friends. I not react on those looks and impulses. Yea, I've been rejected, but I sleep alot better at night knowing what she said rather than wondering. good luck
Matt105 Posted April 7, 2008 Posted April 7, 2008 Asking out girls that you've just met is never easy unless you've got the liquid courage (and by then, you're also the hottest, strongest, baddest mf'er there is). But it is much better to ask directly for a date than to "become a friend and THEN ask" In my experience as I'm about to graduate college, you just gotta go up to her after class. I like to try and begin a conversation as you both leave the room. It takes some skill to make the conversation nonchalant, you don't want her to think you've been trying to plan this out for weeks. Just keep it friendly and upbeat, give off lots of self-confidence. After a few mins just ask if she'd like to go out sometime. If she says yes, get her number. If she says no, then at least you know where it stands and you can think about what you might have done wrong as you get ready to try again with another woman. (And you may have done nothing wrong and she just wasn't feeling it).
Rex Man Posted April 7, 2008 Posted April 7, 2008 I can't tell you whether she likes you or not (only she can do that obviously), but I can tell you that you're likely to fail. Not to be an A-hole, but you fretting like this is only going to hurt yourself. Do yourself a favor, approach this girl the NEXT time you see her, and next time something like this happens, APPROACH SOONER. Don't spend time with 'what ifs' and growing self-doubt.
TheFonz Posted April 7, 2008 Posted April 7, 2008 I can't tell you whether she likes you or not (only she can do that obviously), but I can tell you that you're likely to fail. Not to be an A-hole, but you fretting like this is only going to hurt yourself. Do yourself a favor, approach this girl the NEXT time you see her, and next time something like this happens, APPROACH SOONER. Don't spend time with 'what ifs' and growing self-doubt. I agree. Also don't ask her "do you wants to go out sometime or something." That's too formal and non smooth. Be more creative and sure. Build a bridge to hanging out. Then ask her if she is up for doing whatgever it is you came up with.
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