DanielMadr Posted April 7, 2008 Posted April 7, 2008 Fonz, a guy who gives off "sexual energy" is like a radiator of life energy. He is HOT. A guy who is sending out "desperation" signals is the opposite, It is like he NEEDS you to give him permission to be sexual. Women here probably know what I am saying. You guys are raised to HIDE your sexuality these days and then you pretend that you want to be with women for "friendship" Yuk !. Do you realize that such guys are NOT attractive ( well not to me anyway) Thats because Men are all rapists and such. And they make wars and such. And they watch porn too. Did you know that?
sumdude Posted April 7, 2008 Posted April 7, 2008 Thats because Men are all rapists and such. And they make wars and such. And they watch porn too. Did you know that? Dude... have you been watching Lifetime channel or something? You forgot to add that we are all lying polygamists as well...
blind_otter Posted April 7, 2008 Posted April 7, 2008 When a guy meets a girl, she quickly puts him into one of two compartments, A lover or a nonlover. If you are put into the lover zone well I don't really need to explain that othr than this zone includes ONS, FB's, FWB, and budding LTR, the whole gambit basically. The important thing is it happens fast and before she really knows that much about you. But if you are put into the nonlover zone it has two classes. Friend zone and enemy zone. The enemy zone is where she hates you from the get go maybe usually because she's not attracted to you and not necessarily because you really did anything wrong to her. You're never going to get out of the enemy zone or friend zone into the lover zone is the important thing. Being in the friend zone can be the wrost though it was the most time wasting and crushing thing even worse than being the enemy. Being in the enemy zone means you probably didn't waste too much time and you are actually closer to being a lover than the friend zone guy is. Google: The Ladder Theory
DanielMadr Posted April 7, 2008 Posted April 7, 2008 Google: The Ladder Theory I invented better theory. More practical. Looks: 1 - 10 points Personality(charisma): 1 - 10 points (Guys Looks x 3 + Guys Personality x 7) - (Girls Looks x 7 + Girls Personality x 3) = XY If XY => 30 .....BOOOM.
StayClose Posted April 7, 2008 Posted April 7, 2008 You need to add a third catagory to your formule: money/power. The qualities that trigger romantic/sexual attraction are: Looks (face and physique) Charisma(aka charm, or communication skills). Money/power Being "nice" has little to do with it. There are plenty of nice guys who are popular with women because they are strong in the areas above. The interesting thing is that if a man is strong in any two of these areas, it won't matter if he sucks in the third.
Cherry Blossom 35 Posted April 7, 2008 Posted April 7, 2008 Fonz, a guy who gives off "sexual energy" is like a radiator of life energy. He is HOT. A guy who is sending out "desperation" signals is the opposite, It is like he NEEDS you to give him permission to be sexual. Women here probably know what I am saying. You guys are raised to HIDE your sexuality these days and then you pretend that you want to be with women for "friendship" Yuk !. Do you realize that such guys are NOT attractive ( well not to me anyway) Very well said, Spikey Chick.
Author TheFonz Posted April 7, 2008 Author Posted April 7, 2008 Google: The Ladder Theory Lucretia whatever her username is, already suggested that and I replied.
Author TheFonz Posted April 7, 2008 Author Posted April 7, 2008 You need to add a third catagory to your formule: money/power. The qualities that trigger romantic/sexual attraction are: Looks (face and physique) Charisma(aka charm, or communication skills). Money/power Being "nice" has little to do with it. There are plenty of nice guys who are popular with women because they are strong in the areas above. The interesting thing is that if a man is strong in any two of these areas, it won't matter if he sucks in the third. Right, but my point is you don't have to have money, but if you're not a bad boy the only thing money will get you is total gold diggers and not real attraction.
Author TheFonz Posted April 7, 2008 Author Posted April 7, 2008 I invented better theory. More practical. Looks: 1 - 10 points Personality(charisma): 1 - 10 points (Guys Looks x 3 + Guys Personality x 7) - (Girls Looks x 7 + Girls Personality x 3) = XY If XY => 30 .....BOOOM. My theory is basically the same but you're being more vague, broad and nondescriptive. I'm explaining what in the looks and personality that gets conveyed that causes attraction, And that's having a "bad" inner mentality.
Skies Posted April 7, 2008 Posted April 7, 2008 I think "bad girl" theory is also valid... So at the end, it's most likely: Bad girl + bad boy = perfect Bad girl + good boy = heartbreaks Good girl + good boy = perfect Good girl + bad boy = heartbreaks ? hmm.
Author TheFonz Posted April 7, 2008 Author Posted April 7, 2008 I think "bad girl" theory is also valid... So at the end, it's most likely: Bad girl + bad boy = perfect Bad girl + good boy = heartbreaks Good girl + good boy = perfect Good girl + bad boy = heartbreaks ? hmm. Well except that Good boy doesn't attract bad girls or good girls either one.
StayClose Posted April 8, 2008 Posted April 8, 2008 Right, but my point is you don't have to have money, but if you're not a bad boy the only thing money will get you is total gold diggers and not real attraction. I disagree. Some women are not turned on by the bad boy vibe. And a guy who is very good looking will draw women regardless of his vibe.
Author TheFonz Posted April 8, 2008 Author Posted April 8, 2008 I disagree. Some women are not turned on by the bad boy vibe. And a guy who is very good looking will draw women regardless of his vibe. Well I don't know about drawing women to him, but a guy that's good looking won't have romantic/sexual relations with girls without the bad vibe.
MoonlightLover Posted April 8, 2008 Posted April 8, 2008 I tend to stick them in these two catagories 1. Kill and mount on my wall. 2. Leave alone until they need to be killed and mounted on my wall. But that's just me :laugh::laugh:
Florida Posted April 8, 2008 Posted April 8, 2008 Well I don't know about drawing women to him, but a guy that's good looking won't have romantic/sexual relations with girls without the bad vibe. Completely disagree. I like your points, by the way. But I disagree with this one.
Skies Posted April 8, 2008 Posted April 8, 2008 Very comforting thought I tend to stick them in these two catagories 1. Kill and mount on my wall. 2. Leave alone until they need to be killed and mounted on my wall. But that's just me :laugh::laugh:
Skies Posted April 8, 2008 Posted April 8, 2008 Well except that Good boy doesn't attract bad girls or good girls either one. That conclusion might be a little extreme...I guess bad girls would have interests in good boys when they get tired of bad boys...vice versa...just that they might not be very compatible.
MoonlightLover Posted April 8, 2008 Posted April 8, 2008 Very comforting thought Haha, as long as it brought a smile to your face it's all good.
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