smiiley011 Posted April 6, 2008 Posted April 6, 2008 (sorry this is kinda long!) but yeah, so im friends with this guy named chris (who i have feelings for) and im not so sure how he feels about me. like for example, he'll like sit really close to me in our classes, feed me food, playfully take my things make me beg for them back, every second he sees me he wants a hug, and when were walking by each other or siting down by each other he puts his arm around my shoulders. my friends say this is a sign that he likes me, but im not so sure. i mean ive seen him be friendly with other girls, but not as "friendly" as he is with me. the least ive seen him do with other girls is just sit along side them (no hugging or arm things). i honestly wanna know if my friends are right so im trying to think of a way to comfront him and ask him myself how he feels. but im not sure how. i mean, do i mention to him that i have feelings for him first or what? i need serious help. i plan on asking him next week sometime. please help me! [:
New Posted April 6, 2008 Posted April 6, 2008 (edited) First of all, I'm a guy (so, I do know how guys feel). Second, your post isn't too long, there are a lot of longer post . So, here's my advice. If you want to express your feelings to a guy, you'd better say it DIRECTLY. "Hey, X, I think I have a feeling ..(bla-bla-bla)... but that's how I feel... How do you feel about me?" don't beat around the bush. 1 more thing, about: ive seen him be friendly with other girls, but not as "friendly" as he is with me. the least ive seen him do with other girls is just sit along side them (no hugging or arm things) Maybe he just doesn't want to disturb you (or he feels that you're disturbed). (I can say this because this is how I act when I like someone ). Edited April 6, 2008 by New
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