cutegirl Posted April 5, 2008 Posted April 5, 2008 Sometimes I feel quite disillusioned with men in general and feel like they are "all" into whore mongering which may include; street hookers, escorts, call-girls, massage parlors, going to sex vacations in Asia or Eastern European countries etc. It SEEMS like almost all guys are into this or at least that's my perception of it. Even good looking handsome guys who can get any girls may prefer prostitutes at some point, perhaps cause they have specific fetishes they would like to indulge in, or because they don't want to make an effort with a real woman, or because they crave variety, want to feel in power etc. Also, it doesn't help that sometimes I browse prostitute forums where men "review" girls in different cities etc and review the hookers performance, looks etc. I know it's not an accurate representation of all males as a whole, but it somehow still makes me feel disillusioned. And not all men who are into whore mongering even posts on those forums, there are millions and millions of others out there who are undercover. Do you think it's possible to even find a guy in today's age who is not into hookers or are the majority of men into this stuff?
Little Shy Posted April 5, 2008 Posted April 5, 2008 Sigh! Who dosent wonder this anymore? There in Carhill, but he is taken.... Besides that, honestly girl, your best bet would be to join a church or organized religion that puts the smack down on illicit affairs with prostitutes and the like. There will be some scum bags in that mix too, but at least your chances are increased of meeting a guy there that won't mess with the likes. And it's not just the US, it's everywhere. I feel you girl, couple years back I added to my prospective date screening, men that travel to Thailand or other such places (been to several, so I know what the deal is) alone for lengths of time, repetitively and by themselves, as "non datable". Good luck to you, and good luck to me darlin! LS
Author cutegirl Posted April 5, 2008 Author Posted April 5, 2008 Sigh! Who dosent wonder this anymore? There in Carhill, but he is taken.... Besides that, honestly girl, your best bet would be to join a church or organized religion that puts the smack down on illicit affairs with prostitutes and the like. There will be some scum bags in that mix too, but at least your chances are increased of meeting a guy there that won't mess with the likes. And it's not just the US, it's everywhere. I feel you girl, couple years back I added to my prospective date screening, men that travel to Thailand or other such places (been to several, so I know what the deal is) alone for lengths of time, repetitively and by themselves, as "non datable". Good luck to you, and good luck to me darlin! LS Thanks for your response. I am not really interested in joining a church or organized religion because that's not really my thing. I'm glad I'm not the only one who feels this way. Trips to Thailand etc is a huge red flag. Whore mongers are a deal breaker for me. I just find it really unattractive and uncool. Good luck to you too
Little Shy Posted April 5, 2008 Posted April 5, 2008 Hey Cute girl, Not so sure about organized religion myself, as i grew up with it, and well, kind of out of it... That's the only solution I've got though! That's also the one that my parents always mention to me (doubles as secret ploy to get me back in the church...) Yep, whore mongers, ick! deal breaker for me as well.
Stockalone Posted April 5, 2008 Posted April 5, 2008 I am a guy who isn't a whoremonger, and I am looking for a woman that didn't have a gang-bang with the football team. Do such women really exist. Even though I am not an american, such a statement is ludicrous. Sure, some guys have to use hookers, otherwise that kind of business wouldn't exist. But you can't actually believe that all men are doing it.
blackbird Posted April 5, 2008 Posted April 5, 2008 Yes. I was going to be flippant to you, but I decided against it. If I didn't have a man in my life now who is able to realistically confront, question, and rise above his primal urges rather than seeking to gratify them just because he can, or to deny them and let them fester as a part of himself he can't/won't face, I may wonder the same thing. They do exist. There seem to be several of them around in these forums, and I can point at one a dozen feet away from me right now. They have those urges. They're men. But they know how not to be controlled by them, while at the same time not repressing that part to an unhealthy degree. They may not be perfect, but neither are you and I. Also, generalizing is passe. Mature, well-balanced men are just as out there as mature, well-balanced women.
tkgirl Posted April 5, 2008 Posted April 5, 2008 Also, it doesn't help that sometimes I browse prostitute forums where men "review" girls in different cities etc and review the hookers performance, looks etc. I know it's not an accurate representation of all males as a whole, but it somehow still makes me feel disillusioned. And not all men who are into whore mongering even posts on those forums, there are millions and millions of others out there who are undercover. Do you think it's possible to even find a guy in today's age who is not into hookers or are the majority of men into this stuff? I think you need to stop looking at those "sites"... I didn't even know they existed but I guess I'm not surprised. To me there is way too much crap on the internet... anyways, I think browsing those sites too long could definitely give you a bad impression of men.
carhill Posted April 5, 2008 Posted April 5, 2008 Hey, I like my FSU sex vacations Seriously, do you really want to envision the reality of those people who are doing such things?.... I run an internet forum. About 1-2% of my members actually post. That's pretty typical. So, that's what you're seeing. A miniscule minority. I see the same thing here on LS. A core posting group of not much more than 100 people. Better to stay off the internet other than as a communication and information medium when entertaining prospective beaus. It is great for doing background checks There are a ton of really normal guys out there. I was single until I was 40. I figure the ladies had plenty of opportunities
Kezersoze Posted May 29, 2008 Posted May 29, 2008 :confused:Porn is apart of whoremongering? since when? lol
twice_shy Posted May 30, 2008 Posted May 30, 2008 If I weren't married I would probably just pay for sex. It's most honest way of getting laid and both sides know exactly what the deal is. Don't get me wrong I would never cheat on my wife but hookers are an easy to get ldaid without the drama as long as a man knows it is just business. That reminds me of an email someone sent me: ============================================== I did the math on the Paul McCartney-Heather Mills divorce. After 5 years of marriage, he paid her $49 million. Assuming he banged her every night during their 5 year relationship, it ends up costing him $26,849 per lay, not counting attorney's fees and court costs. On the other hand, Elliot Spitzer's call girl Kristen charges $4,000 an hour. Crazy, right? But... Had Paul McCartney employed Kristen for 5 years, he would've paid $7.3 million for an hour of sex every night for 5 years (a savings of $41+million). Value-added benefits are: a 22 year old hot babe, no begging, no coaxing, never a headache, wide open menu, ability to put BOTH legs around you, no bitching and complaining or "to do" lists. Best of all, she leaves when you're done, and comes back the next day, ready for another round. All at 1/7th the cost, with no legal fees. Is it just me, or is it better to rent?
JackhammerGemma Posted May 30, 2008 Posted May 30, 2008 My question would be, are there any non-cheaters left? I'm sure there are but they are like the brass ring on the carousel, always just out of reach for whatever reason.
AndyW Posted May 30, 2008 Posted May 30, 2008 Not all men cheat or see hookers. I have never paid a hooker. If that is your thing then fine but I would never actually pay someone to have sex with me. I did cheat on someone when I was younger. Felt guilty about it for years. I would never do that again to anyone. If I wasn't happy I would just leave, Not cheat.
Replicant Posted May 30, 2008 Posted May 30, 2008 My question would be, are there any non-cheaters left? I'm sure there are but they are like the brass ring on the carousel, always just out of reach for whatever reason. Of course there are...Saying such is about as accusatory towards the majority of mens morals as the OP's statement was. Such as I don't understand why some men would want to make a cash deposit for a disease withdrawal. A very volatile investment IMO. Just like i don't agree with the cheating mindset of certain individuals. Maybe you should question why they are out of reach and (or) your insecurities before making such a blanket statement.
Mahatma Posted May 30, 2008 Posted May 30, 2008 Well... I am an 18 year old male so this may not help since quite a few girls my age could just be categorized as whores anyways, but I tend to steer clear of girls who I label as whores and would never even consider using a call-girl or any other form of prostitution. These types of things scare me because of such high possibility for STDs and such. I think the problem arises when men become bored with the sexual performance of their partner. I think this can happen with both sides, but happens much easier for the males, so we seek variety. I think as long as both partners remain as open as possible to their mate's desires, this sort of problem could be eliminated.
orangesean Posted May 31, 2008 Posted May 31, 2008 This is a really weird thread. First of all it assumes just about all men pay for hookers or whores at one point of another, then a lot of people agree, then people start defending those that pay for sex while others say men are pigs or whatever, and now porn is the same as paying for sex? I don't know what everyone's deal is, but I certainly think not too many men straight up go to whores or massage parlors. Personally in my group of friends we'd make fun of eachother for doing it. Not that there's anything essentially wrong with going to those places, but I think you should be single first. It's a waste of money, and I guess I consider there are better things to do than go to lengths to get your rocks off with a stranger. But to each their own. I say just masturbate all the pent up sexuality out and then get on with your life and do something productive (assuming you are single and don't have someone to come home to and have a nice long session of sex with on a Friday night.) But seriously? Whoremongers? I have a hard time of thinking of guys I know that do that over guys that don't. And anyone who pays for porn in this day and age is just retarded. I'm sorry. They need to learn to navigate a computer. There is absolutely no need to pay for porn. It's free all over the internet now. You can torrent almost any movie, find zip files of almost anything you want. I don't understand the weirdos who actually put their hard earned money into a porn site. All you gotta do is put your money towards an internet connection, which is helpful because you can also do many things that don't involve naked women as well.
Lizzie60 Posted May 31, 2008 Posted May 31, 2008 Hahaha.. that was too funny... I don't know what everyone's deal is, but I certainly think not too many men straight up go to whores or massage parlors. Personally in my group of friends we'd make fun of eachother for doing it. Not that there's anything essentially wrong with going to those places, but I think you should be single first. You have absolutely no idea if some of your friends actually go to massage parlours.. or pay for sex.. etc.. Like you say, they would make fun of each other.. so they just keep their mouth shut... You'd be surprised at all the men that go to massage parlours.. why do you think there is one on almost every block in town.. they're not always advertized... they are million dollars businesses.. so don't tell me that NOT too many straight men go to massage parlours.. You have absolutely NO idea. I would say that it is about 50/50 married/single men.. IMO. It makes me smile when I see post like yours.. that one is absolutely sure that their friends/husbands/boyfriends ARE NOT going to these places.. you have noooo idea what your friend/husband/boyfriend do when you're not around...
orangesean Posted June 1, 2008 Posted June 1, 2008 I mean I realize that may as well be, but it could just I know that other 50% only. I don't know the full truth and maybe I don't truly care. But I can account for myself at least.
FleshNBones Posted June 1, 2008 Posted June 1, 2008 You'd be surprised at all the men that go to massage parlours.. why do you think there is one on almost every block in town.. they're not always advertized... they are million dollars businesses.. so don't tell me that NOT too many straight men go to massage parlours.. You have absolutely NO idea. I would say that it is about 50/50 married/single men.. IMO. It makes me smile when I see post like yours.. that one is absolutely sure that their friends/husbands/boyfriends ARE NOT going to these places.. you have noooo idea what your friend/husband/boyfriend do when you're not around...What kind of men do you surround yourself with?
Lizzie60 Posted June 1, 2008 Posted June 1, 2008 What kind of men do you surround yourself with? The same kind you surround yourself.. :rolleyes: work colleagues, friends, neighbours, etc.
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