misseee Posted April 4, 2008 Posted April 4, 2008 (edited) I have 3 children and have always wanted 4. Husband has always said no 3 is enough Im with what I have. The he cheated and decided to leave for this other person who is childless and very young and probally would like a family of her own. I asked him why he would get with someone that would possibly want children when is so adamant he didn't want anymore. His respone was It would be unfair of me to deny her that.Anyway that ended. This comes up a bit. we have conversations were if we didn't work out and he met a new partner and they wanted to have a family he wouldn't deny them that. He says it's different. I fail how to see it's different. If you only want x amount of kids then you would only have that even if you found a new partner. Am I not seeing somehting here? I know our relationship is in no state to have anymore children but I was asking about the future 5-10yrs away. because I truley want another one and I'm weighing up if its worth giving up my dreams for I'm feeling confused and sad at the moment. Really is he just saying I only want 3 with you. No more kids with YOU Edited April 4, 2008 by misseee font
soulseeker Posted April 4, 2008 Posted April 4, 2008 I hope I have this straight. your husband cheated on you. My question to you is: Why on earth would you want to have more children with a man like this? I am baffled. I say let it go and see what happens in the next 5-10 years...Seems like a moot point right now and you've got other things to worry about.
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