totallyawesome Posted April 4, 2008 Posted April 4, 2008 I miss my boyfriend so much. We've been in a long distance relationship for about 2 years now, and everything is great, we plan on moving in together this summer. I mean, he's wonderful, he's my everything. We do everything with and for each other. I know he is the only man for me. But these last few months are just so unbearable. I saw him last the end of February, and I'm going out to see him in 2 weeks, but right now I miss him so much. I try not to think about it most of the time, and to keep myself occupied if we can't talk (we usually are talking-mostly online we can play games, cam, and talk at the same time, it's almost like a date). But at night when I'm going to sleep, as well as in the morning when i wake up without him, it's so hard. I would never think about being with anybody else, and I know he needs me just as much as I need him, with anyone else we could never be as happy. But I hate being away from him. It's getting to the point where I am crying myself to sleep because I miss him so bad. I miss his touch, and his kisses, and how he'd squeeze me extra tight right before he fell asleep. I'm even crying now. And I don't know why. I mean, I have him, and I always will. It's just so hard to be without him and I don't know how to not be so upset. I know he hates that I miss him this bad because he hates to see me upset, even just for a second, it breaks his heart. But I need him, and I don't know what to do about it. Also, I know some people think it's dumb to get so wrapped up in another person, but he is my life, and I am his. People now spend their energy pursuing other things, but what's important to us is spending time with together. We do everything together, because we're happiest this way. We don't have many other friends because we feel like it's taking time apart from us, that it's wasting time that we could be spending together. Of course I can enjoy myself without him, but nothing is quite the same, so if I can have the best, why shouldn't I. It's just so hard to be without him anymore, I was just hoping I could get some advice. Is this even normal I don't know.
j_hunt_12 Posted April 4, 2008 Posted April 4, 2008 I've not been at it nearly as long as you, but I'd say that in a LDR you really should try to have a life away from your other. My GF is my everything too, when we were really together we were with each other as close as 24/7 as we good. But time goes by quicker when you try to have fun, work a lot, go out with friends. It keeps you sane. Some take it as far as seeing other people... that's not a good idea, but try to have fun. I only try to have fun because I know it will make time go by quicker so I can be with her... I know how much it sucks though... peace
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