smookie Posted April 4, 2008 Posted April 4, 2008 we break up get back together 7 months later he says, I love you but not in love with you... I miss you... I care about you after 5 years what the hell does that mean.. back ground to this mess.... I moved out kinnda hard relationship I am moved and have my own place with a GREAT job and this is what I am hearing.. When I questioned it he said I told you before the same thing.. What the heck is this? should I leave amd forget this or should I stay and hope?
cyabye Posted April 4, 2008 Posted April 4, 2008 (edited) Smookie, I am new here as far as posting but I've been lurking for some time. I have heard this "not in love with you" many times from my stbxw. From my experience, it means this person does not know what love is. Love is more than just an "ooiee-gooiee" feeling. I would not sacrifice my own space and a good job for this person if this is what I was hearing. Falling "in love" is easy. Keeping it takes work. From what I am reading by your post, this person does not feel the same as you do. Move on. Be strong. Life is too short and the world is full of other people who are looking for a real relationship. Hope this helps, cyabye Edited April 4, 2008 by cyabye
nab0610 Posted April 4, 2008 Posted April 4, 2008 you hit the nail on the head move on...they don't know what they want so why give up a good job and a nice place
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