sniahd Posted April 3, 2008 Posted April 3, 2008 Well if you read my last post, i discuss how i was goin to go in NC. So last night i text him. " I love you so much. n i am tryin to be strong" so he replies back "K boo. Promise to keep u better. if sleep is needed its ok" .... so i didnt respond. then he text agian " I tried to call boo" ... so i then respond "Huh? When?.... then he replies " Pls stop callin me"......Now i am so confuse.. why he even replied the whole time then say that.. Did he text me on accident n really he was textin his new girl... i am so confuse. Soon as i was gonna go into NC n move on. it start all over agian... so this mournin i woke up to a text from him sayin "Hope u slept well" ...I am so confused. What should i do?
carhill Posted April 3, 2008 Posted April 3, 2008 Um...Block his texts. NC means no contact, as in not even reading his messages or hearing his voice, beyond you not contacting him. Think of it as the communication black hole, where nothing escapes
tealeafbud Posted April 3, 2008 Posted April 3, 2008 I know you are freaking out. I can sense it in your post. You really need someone there with you. Can you get anyone? a friend of family member? You need to calm down, recognize that you are no longer together, and move on with your life. I think one of the greatest challenges is to not focus on him. Try meditating for 15 seconds without any thoughts of him. honestly do it. Then go longer, and longer till you are able to put yourself into a relaxed state. Go through your day valuing yourself more and you'll be fine. Negative energy is not good for you. Take care, and be Strong for all of us on this board, but most importantly for yourself.
SeraBella Posted April 3, 2008 Posted April 3, 2008 Ummm...WHY DID YOU TEXT HIM IF YOU WERE GOING NC????? Of course he contacted you! You contacted him first! Don't text him, don't respond. Stop it!
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