starlite Posted April 3, 2008 Posted April 3, 2008 Well, 2 weeks ago my ex of almost 3 years and I decided to give it a second shot. It ended 2 nights ago. He won't change (they never will), he is almost 30 and is so immature and just selfish. A tiny bit of back history...He lied to me a bunch, cheated on me I am told a few times, he claims once...he would go out late at night and drink and party which if I trusted him well it would have been fine but he lied so much that when he did these things I would make myself sick over it. So, when we got back together he promised to be honest etc. He was SO sorry. I asked him to just give me a few weeks to try and rebuild us. No late night parties etc...just calm, and after what he did I think I deserved that. Well, he brought it up every other day, how his friends keep calling him to go out and I cant take his life away from him. WE got in about 3 fights. My attraction to him had faded. I couldnt "perform" in the bedroom, well, I couldnt get turned on.... So, I told him I deserve more and we broke up. Second chances are great in theory. But people really dont change. I know he loves me, a lot...but he wants his life how he wants it (which is ok) and I cant have that. Not if he isnt willing to give me enough to be at least ok with us. I think I needed this though.
Bobby.Roy Posted April 3, 2008 Posted April 3, 2008 Second chances are great in theory. But people really dont change. This is so true, its heart-breaking but true..Once a couple breaks up (specially on account of cheating), its real real hard to get back all that again..Almost impossible..
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