mckinleysm Posted April 3, 2008 Posted April 3, 2008 Hi, my name is shane im 15 and im having trouble talkin to this 1 girl and this 1 girl only, my whole life i had no prob talkin to girls but this girl makes me go crazy ive talked to her a few times and all those times ive made a complete loser of myself jus because im so nervous, and whenever i see her usually theres a group of people around so its hard to just talk to her. anyone have advice????????
Green Posted April 3, 2008 Posted April 3, 2008 Yeah my advice is stop putting so much pressure on yourself. First off try not to get tunnel vision for this one girl, learn the art of flirting. Its where you have light hearted fun conversations, and you usualy try to tease the girl in a way that gets her laughing or something. Just play it cool like you don't care what happens and try to get a date going or something. Then if you get a date just have your parents take u guys to the movies or mini golf and try to get a kiss... there ya go kid
youngandhopeful Posted April 3, 2008 Posted April 3, 2008 I think its difficult for men to remember that women aren't much different to men. Ok, they don't alwasy like the same things, but they do still speak the same language and have similar feeling etc. So talking to this girl, should be no different to having a laugh with one of your friends. I know exactly how you feel though, as i have 0on many occassions felt very nervous around certain girls, but you will find the more you talk to girls the more natural it becomes. Just give it time I hope this helps a little
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