sniahd Posted April 3, 2008 Posted April 3, 2008 Well, i been in a relationship for a 2yrs and 3weeks ago hmy ex broke up with me with really no reason. i stayed in contact since the break up n sometimes he would answer n say he loved me but then sometimes he wouldnt answer. so two days ago i called n he got pissed n told me to never call him agian. n how he want nothin to do with me n hung the phone up. So i text him sayin i love him n always will. then he says well if you stop callin me you wont lose a friend. then i look on myspace n it says he in a relationship with some girl in another state. n he must of went to see her bcuz they have pics together. i was so hurt. he lives in LA n she in Arkansas. I am so hurt he have her all on his myspace like he so happy. but how could that be? i am so hurt n confuse.. What should i do ? he also block me from his Myspace when he got mad bcuz i keep calllin n texting. well now i am just gonna go with NC n keep my mind on school n career....
atc2410 Posted April 3, 2008 Posted April 3, 2008 Yep your intelligence has it sorted even though your heart has taken a beating. Awful way to have a two year relationship end. This guy doesn't deserve your attention, affection or so much as a another glance from you in his general direction. For now at least. Leave him to wallow in his self-centredness and concentrate on yourself.
cyabye Posted April 4, 2008 Posted April 4, 2008 sniahd, STAY NC (including text messaging). The NC is for you. NOT him. NC gives you the time to heal and take charge of your life again. To get your own power back. Heartache hurts. I know. It will go away and get better in time. You answered your own question of what to do. Worry about yourself (school and career). Also, you do NOT want him as a friend. Especially if he's in another relationship (stop visiting his myspace page). Go back to doing what you did before you met this person. Hope this helps, cyabye
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