MayDay Posted April 3, 2008 Posted April 3, 2008 I'm not a mind reader or fortune teller though. Well not quite almost. Considering the experience you claim you have, something doesn't add up. Maybe you are being something you are not. Thus, if so, how can it be a real experience for you. Maybe you are living a charade. Try being yourself instead of acting like someone to get women.
Author TheFonz Posted April 3, 2008 Author Posted April 3, 2008 Considering the experience you claim you have, something doesn't add up. Maybe you are being something you are not. Thus, if so, how can it be a real experience for you. Maybe you are living a charade. Try being yourself instead of acting like someone to get women. I am being myself who else am I going to be? But if what I did wasn't working I change myself.
MayDay Posted April 3, 2008 Posted April 3, 2008 I am being myself who else am I going to be? But if what I did wasn't working I change myself. So you change yourself to accomplish what?
Jilly Bean Posted April 3, 2008 Posted April 3, 2008 Fonzie - me thinks thou dost protest too much. Me thinks you'd really like to find a nice woman and be in love. Just a hunch...
Advocate's Devilette Posted April 3, 2008 Posted April 3, 2008 Hey Fonz, you claim to be a player and players aren't looking for relationships so why does it matter if you get the one-night stand type of girl who only wants to have sex once or twice then disappear? Isn't this your ideal?
MayDay Posted April 3, 2008 Posted April 3, 2008 Fonzie - me thinks thou dost protest too much. Me thinks you'd really like to find a nice woman and be in love. Just a hunch... He will never do that changing himself (by being jerk, as he stated in other threads) because when he attracts one he loves, he wont be the guy the woman was first attracted to. He sells himself out to get the girl. So he has a choice: continue pretending or being his true self and exposing deciet He doth protest too much
Author TheFonz Posted April 3, 2008 Author Posted April 3, 2008 So you change yourself to accomplish what? whatever your goal is. I don't need to change personally.
Author TheFonz Posted April 3, 2008 Author Posted April 3, 2008 He doth protest too much I'm not protesting anything. I'm giving (mostly good) advice and receiving (mostly bad) advice.
MayDay Posted April 3, 2008 Posted April 3, 2008 I'm not protesting anything. I'm giving (mostly good) advice and receiving (mostly bad) advice. Which advice was bad? When is your next date? does the jerk persona work on here? how come women don't respond to you positively on here? Or does acting like a jerk only work in real life and not elsewhere?
dreamergrl Posted April 3, 2008 Posted April 3, 2008 I'm not sure about other girls, but for myself... I slept with my ex fiance on our first date - we immediately hit it off - and there was some major major attraction going on. We ended up with a great relationship - I just ended up not being ready for marriage at the time, so we parted for a while. He wanted more then I could give. Other then that - best relationship I've had in my life. On the other hand, coming out of a really crappy bad bad relationship - I had went out with a guy I had found attractive - slept with him the first night, but it stayed at a casual level. We weren't sleeping with anyone else, and found that we both still wanted sex in our lives. For me it was being able to have a fill of that bond without getting emotionally invested. I don't make it a habit of doing so. There were just a few times that it just happened.
Author TheFonz Posted April 3, 2008 Author Posted April 3, 2008 I don't have to answer to you, but I'll do it only because I want to . Which advice was bad? Too broad of a question, but since you asked all of your advice. When is your next date? Whenever I want it. Are you asking me if I'm free ? does the jerk persona work on here? Youd be surprised . how come women don't respond to you positively on here? I'm actually not trying to game women on here. i'm showing a serious side that I wouldn't with a girl I wanted to get. But you'd be surprised how many times women act like they're mad but hook up later. Or does acting like a jerk only work in real life and not elsewhere? Like I said above, it works it just depends on the motive. I'm not trying to PU any girls on here. Can't make comparisons.
Author TheFonz Posted April 3, 2008 Author Posted April 3, 2008 I'm not sure about other girls, but for myself... I slept with my ex fiance on our first date - we immediately hit it off - and there was some major major attraction going on. We ended up with a great relationship - I just ended up not being ready for marriage at the time, so we parted for a while. He wanted more then I could give. Other then that - best relationship I've had in my life. On the other hand, coming out of a really crappy bad bad relationship - I had went out with a guy I had found attractive - slept with him the first night, but it stayed at a casual level. We weren't sleeping with anyone else, and found that we both still wanted sex in our lives. For me it was being able to have a fill of that bond without getting emotionally invested. I don't make it a habit of doing so. There were just a few times that it just happened. That's what I'm saying. You're such a slvt! I'm totally kidding. This is how it usually happens. A lot of girls are trying to play like they're young innocent virgins waiting on marriage when they're not. If you're really not, then playing hard to get really means you're just not interested in the guy. And you're most likely playing "easy to get" with the guy you really like. You're not ever going to do anything with the guy you're playing hard to get.
Advocate's Devilette Posted April 3, 2008 Posted April 3, 2008 That's what I'm saying. You're such a slvt! I'm totally kidding. This is how it usually happens. A lot of girls are trying to play like they're young innocent virgins waiting on marriage when they're not. If you're really not, then playing hard to get really means you're just not interested in the guy. And you're most likely playing "easy to get" with the guy you really like. You're not ever going to do anything with the guy you're playing hard to get. It's not 'playing' or 'putting on an act.' It's 'getting to know someone and building an emotional and intellectual romantic bond' with someone. It takes a while to 'really like' or 'love' someone. You can have a crush, be attracted, or infatuated with someone but it takes time to 'really like' or 'love' someone enough to make it worthy of sleeping with someone. Get it? It really is so much more fulfilling to 'make love' than 'give it up' on the first few dates with someone you truly barely know.
dreamergrl Posted April 3, 2008 Posted April 3, 2008 That's what I'm saying. You're such a slvt! I'm totally kidding. This is how it usually happens. A lot of girls are trying to play like they're young innocent virgins waiting on marriage when they're not. If you're really not, then playing hard to get really means you're just not interested in the guy. And you're most likely playing "easy to get" with the guy you really like. You're not ever going to do anything with the guy you're playing hard to get. I for sure was not playing the young innocent virgin I like sex as much as guys I'm sure of that - but I don't give it up on the first night, all but those few times. My poooint was it depends on the situation. If she's just bouncing out of a relationship - not a good sign. If not, and the chemistry is just that good - then go for it. I don't like playing "to get" either way. I'll let a guy know I'm interested, I don't do the excessive calling or ignoring. I try to keep it as simple as freaking possible. Games get old.
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