HeavenScent Posted April 2, 2008 Posted April 2, 2008 Have you ever had that empty feeling when you were seeing your partner or those who are in a relationship, have you gone through that? You love your partner but after so long of not seeing each other (for whatever reason), there's this empty feeling inside you - have you experienced that? If yes, will that empty feeling turn into "no more love" for your partner?
blair08 Posted April 2, 2008 Posted April 2, 2008 Have you ever had that empty feeling when you were seeing your partner or those who are in a relationship, have you gone through that? You love your partner but after so long of not seeing each other (for whatever reason), there's this empty feeling inside you - have you experienced that? If yes, will that empty feeling turn into "no more love" for your partner? Maybe you both are kind of at a standstill with your relationship? Kind of like gotten comfortable or something? Have you tried doing different things together? Going different places, being intimate differently? Trying a new hobby together?
Robbed Posted April 3, 2008 Posted April 3, 2008 Yes I have. Seriously.... sometimes I think to myself, wow I don't know if I want to be in another relationship. I mean, it's always nice at first until you start seeing something about the other person that you're not crazy about. When I see a nice looking girl, I', like...ok she's nice looking, I wonder how her personaltity is? Ok, I'm a different kind of thinking guy, yeah looks are important, but not so much when it comes to the real heart of the person. And I'm not talking about the sorry statement "except me for who I am," that's old now. It's also a cop-out for the other person just doing or saying anything to have their way and not being accountable for being who they are with respect...feel me? You know?...Just being as real as I understand.
Author HeavenScent Posted April 3, 2008 Author Posted April 3, 2008 Maybe you both are kind of at a standstill with your relationship? Kind of like gotten comfortable or something? Have you tried doing different things together? Going different places, being intimate differently? Trying a new hobby together? I'm not in a relationship, Blair. Just something my friends go through and I wanted to know what others have gone through and how they deal with it. One of my friends said that her feelings for her boyfriend does not change but she feels empty at times... not seeing him as often, both busy with studies/work. They planned to meet up some time soon and try new things. I think it will go back to the same thing afterwards? No?
Author HeavenScent Posted April 3, 2008 Author Posted April 3, 2008 Yes I have. Seriously.... sometimes I think to myself, wow I don't know if I want to be in another relationship. I mean, it's always nice at first until you start seeing something about the other person that you're not crazy about. When I see a nice looking girl, I', like...ok she's nice looking, I wonder how her personaltity is? Ok, I'm a different kind of thinking guy, yeah looks are important, but not so much when it comes to the real heart of the person. And I'm not talking about the sorry statement "except me for who I am," that's old now. It's also a cop-out for the other person just doing or saying anything to have their way and not being accountable for being who they are with respect...feel me? You know?...Just being as real as I understand. I don't think it's about seeing something you're not crazy about that person. It's more about not being able to connect with each other... being far away and all that.
blair08 Posted April 3, 2008 Posted April 3, 2008 I'm not in a relationship, Blair. Just something my friends go through and I wanted to know what others have gone through and how they deal with it. One of my friends said that her feelings for her boyfriend does not change but she feels empty at times... not seeing him as often, both busy with studies/work. They planned to meet up some time soon and try new things. I think it will go back to the same thing afterwards? No? OK, sorry you did not state it was about friends. Thought it was about you. However even if its about your friends my post still applies. So if its not what I had suggested then, not sure.
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