redfathom Posted April 3, 2008 Posted April 3, 2008 I think the way you said it seemed like that was ALL you wanted.
sally4sara Posted April 3, 2008 Posted April 3, 2008 Ahem! Too busy fighting the war to answer? How would you feel if your complaint about something was pronounced to be pure pointless nagging by your SO? Such as (and personalized for your taste): "Pardon me Pornstar GF, but while I love your BJ skills I am made highly uncomfortable when you put your finger THERE and would prefer you stop trying it." and she says "Don't be dumb, your prostate is up there. You said you wanted me to be your Pornstar GF and I intend to service every part of you. You will learn to like it."
whichwayisup Posted April 3, 2008 Posted April 3, 2008 What's funny is, whether most women admit or not, most of them want and are having pornstar sex, but if a guy suys that's what he wants too No, you want your WHOLE relationship to be about you and what you want/need. This isn't just about the sex, it's your whole approach and your way of thinking of how a woman should be, and act. She has 'your' rules to live by and that's the bottomline. YOU are incontrol and you expect her to jump when you tell her to. How selfish. I bet you aren't a giver, nor do you put any girlfriends needs above your own, ever. Well, maybe on her birthday, but other than that, she's got to be there for you 24/7. Let me ask, have you found this 'pornstar' woman yet?
Author TheFonz Posted April 3, 2008 Author Posted April 3, 2008 So you don't want her to complain, only compliment you. What if you got a hair cut and it was awful, would you want her to tell you to go back and have it redone, or tell you how incredibly handsme you are , even if she was lying? I do think people need to be more polite to their SO's I always tell my H "thank you" when he does something for me, even if it's just taking out the trash. I also tell him how handsome he looks. But I also tell him if he morning breath or something in his teeth. I am sure he appreicates those things too. OK I already answered this. For example, to tell her squeeze you think they got a bad haircut is one thing, but to harp on it or to criticise his lack of style, or go off on some other rant about how he's always getting is hair cut and and he's vain, and blah blah blah is a different story.
whichwayisup Posted April 3, 2008 Posted April 3, 2008 What if your pornstar gf decided to put a strapon on and do you up the ass? Would you allow such a thing? Hey, it happens in porn and you have a pornstar girlfriend, right?
redfathom Posted April 3, 2008 Posted April 3, 2008 Which of those two scenarios do you think is most likely to happen? The only time women nag like is when they are unhappy in their relationship. So you are really talking about an UNHAPPY woman, not women in general. But you have to admit you are a little vein...
Author TheFonz Posted April 3, 2008 Author Posted April 3, 2008 Ahem! Too busy fighting the war to answer? How would you feel if your complaint about something was pronounced to be pure pointless nagging by your SO? Such as (and personalized for your taste): "Pardon me Pornstar GF, but while I love your BJ skills I am made highly uncomfortable when you put your finger THERE and would prefer you stop trying it." and she says "Don't be dumb, your prostate is up there. You said you wanted me to be your Pornstar GF and I intend to service every part of you. You will learn to like it." That scenario sounds like how I imagine two guys would go about having sex, not a guy and a girl.
Lauriebell82 Posted April 3, 2008 Posted April 3, 2008 Ahem! Too busy fighting the war to answer? How would you feel if your complaint about something was pronounced to be pure pointless nagging by your SO? Such as (and personalized for your taste): "Pardon me Pornstar GF, but while I love your BJ skills I am made highly uncomfortable when you put your finger THERE and would prefer you stop trying it." and she says "Don't be dumb, your prostate is up there. You said you wanted me to be your Pornstar GF and I intend to service every part of you. You will learn to like it." LOL dude that's awesome!
Author TheFonz Posted April 3, 2008 Author Posted April 3, 2008 OK I'm refusing to be nagged further by a bunch of women who aren't even my personal pornstar. Even if she was it goes against my principles
sally4sara Posted April 3, 2008 Posted April 3, 2008 LOL dude that's awesome! notice he still didn't answer as to how he would feel if he had a complaint and his SO blew it off as nagging?
Trimmer Posted April 3, 2008 Posted April 3, 2008 Okay, okay. Maybe people are jumping up a down, reading into the OPs words what isn't there. Which, let's face it, is exactly how he wants it....
sally4sara Posted April 3, 2008 Posted April 3, 2008 OK I'm refusing to be nagged further by a bunch of women who aren't even my personal pornstar. Even if she was it goes against my principles Oh look! It must be his time of the month; he's getting all huffy over nothing!
whichwayisup Posted April 3, 2008 Posted April 3, 2008 OK I'm refusing to be nagged further by a bunch of women who aren't even my personal pornstar. Bye bye then. Why continue on if you couldn't care less what anyone says around here? Noone here really cares either, I'm just posting because I'm bored. You're not asking for advice, you just want to be heard and hope that you can brainwash afew fella's to join you in your pathetic view on women... Sorry to be harsh but you guys asked for it by invading LS, so if you don't like what people say here, either deal with it or leave.
Lauriebell82 Posted April 3, 2008 Posted April 3, 2008 Bye bye then. Why continue on if you couldn't care less what anyone says around here? Noone here really cares either, I'm just posting because I'm bored. You're not asking for advice, you just want to be heard and hope that you can brainwash afew fella's to join you in your pathetic view on women... Sorry to be harsh but you guys asked for it by invading LS, so if you don't like what people say here, either deal with it or leave. Yeah, I agree. I mean hey the title of your thread is "what do women think of what I do?" What did you expect us to say? That your view of relationships/women is wonderful and any of us would just love to have you control her? COME ON!
sally4sara Posted April 3, 2008 Posted April 3, 2008 Bye bye then. Why continue on if you couldn't care less what anyone says around here? Noone here really cares either, I'm just posting because I'm bored. You're not asking for advice, you just want to be heard and hope that you can brainwash afew fella's to join you in your pathetic view on women... Sorry to be harsh but you guys asked for it by invading LS, so if you don't like what people say here, either deal with it or leave. Looks like both of us picked up on the likely hood that he was uhhmmm, "pucker timid"! The controlling ones always are.......
Author TheFonz Posted April 3, 2008 Author Posted April 3, 2008 Yeah, I agree. I mean hey the title of your thread is "what do women think of what I do?" What did you expect us to say? That your view of relationships/women is wonderful and any of us would just love to have you control her? COME ON! Well I didn't expect you (that's a collective you) to be so hostile and personal. I figured more people would totally agree actually.
whichwayisup Posted April 3, 2008 Posted April 3, 2008 What did you expect us to say? Me thinks he expected every woman on here to agree with him and tell him what he wanted to hear. Unfortunately for him that didn't happen and now he's saying we're all naggers. Oh well.
whichwayisup Posted April 3, 2008 Posted April 3, 2008 I figured more people would totally agree actually. I dare you to have this discussion in public, offline at a party in a room full of women you don't know. Ask the women what you posed here, ask them what they think of your pornstar theory. Then come back and post about it. Though, I doubt you have the nerve to really put yourself out there and tell women in general IRL that you think this way...That's why you post it online. Safer for you.
blackbird Posted April 3, 2008 Posted April 3, 2008 I just want her to be agreeable and not nag, judge, or demand anything other than mutual companyIt's fine to want your partner not to be nagging, judging, or demanding. I think most of us want to be in a relationship with healthy sex and a lack of nagging, judging, and demanding behavior. (What seems like nagging, judging, or demanding can be in the eye of the beholder, though. Person A might simply think he is expressing himself in a healthy manner, and person B might interpret it as nagging.) As far as enjoying and valuing your company goes, well of course. If you don't enjoy and value your partner's company at least MOST of the time, why would you be with them? This just looks like trolling to me. He managed to put nothing excessively unreasonable in his list of wants, but to word it just offensively enough, and to leave out just enough, to irk and bait people. "It's all about you and what you want!" "Well I didn't say I wouldn't do what SHE wanted too, I just didn't mention that part, OMG GUYS STOP ASSUMING"
Author TheFonz Posted April 3, 2008 Author Posted April 3, 2008 It's fine to want your partner not to be nagging, judging, or demanding. I think most of us want to be in a relationship with healthy sex and a lack of nagging, judging, and demanding behavior. (What seems like nagging, judging, or demanding can be in the eye of the beholder, though. Person A might simply think he is expressing himself in a healthy manner, and person B might interpret it as nagging.) As far as enjoying and valuing your company goes, well of course. If you don't enjoy and value your partner's company at least MOST of the time, why would you be with them? OK first post in awhile that was on topic and the person actually comprehend what I wrote earlier. This just looks like trolling to me. He managed to put nothing excessively unreasonable in his list of wants, but to word it just offensively enough, and to leave out just enough, to irk and bait people. "It's all about you and what you want!" "Well I didn't say I wouldn't do what SHE wanted too, I just didn't mention that part, OMG GUYS STOP ASSUMING" So unless I coddle every person that replies or unless I write an exhuastive entire thesis of why I like what I like, it's trolling ?
Author TheFonz Posted April 3, 2008 Author Posted April 3, 2008 I dare you to have this discussion in public, offline at a party in a room full of women you don't know. Ask the women what you posed here, ask them what they think of your pornstar theory. Then come back and post about it. Though, I doubt you have the nerve to really put yourself out there and tell women in general IRL that you think this way...That's why you post it online. Safer for you. And I dare you to go around telling every guy you meet that he just wants sex and you're going to play hard to get and hold off the sex even though you really want to have sex. Yet that's what a lot of people post on here. So what's your point?
blind_otter Posted April 3, 2008 Posted April 3, 2008 Hey if that's what you want and it works for you, more power to you. I like someone who stands up to me and has spunk, though. If that means we have different opinions on some things and disagree sometimes, that's cool. I understand wanting your partner to be pleasant all the time, but TBH that just doesn't happen IRL all the time. Sometimes bad things happen - you lose a job, a friend or family member dies. Then you feel sh*teous for a while, and it would be nice to have a partner who is willing to slog through the sh*t with you, rather than one who is a "fair weather friend".
whichwayisup Posted April 3, 2008 Posted April 3, 2008 And I dare you to go around telling every guy you meet that he just wants sex and you're going to play hard to get and hold off the sex even though you really want to have sex. Yet that's what a lot of people post on here. So what's your point? I'm not everyone so don't assume you know my thoughts. I'm married so it's a mute point.
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