iceknite Posted April 1, 2008 Share Posted April 1, 2008 First off what would you think about a 12th grader(me) dating a 9th grader? I don't think its a big deal if we like each other and if we don't really care about the age, but what would your reactions be? That leads me to my second point. How do I talk this girl? I noticed her a couple of weeks ago and can't get her out of my head. I've never felt like this about a girl I've never even talked to. I'm a pretty shy guy so talking to her won't be easy but I'm willing to try talking to her and create attraction but I need some advice on this. She's a couple of years younger than me so I don't want to come off too strong at first right? I'm thinking I'll have to slowly connect with her. But as I said I'm shy so I need to know how to talk to her the first time. I see her once in a while in the hallway but she is always with her friends so this makes it even harder to talk to her. Link to post Share on other sites
dreamergrl Posted April 1, 2008 Share Posted April 1, 2008 First off what would you think about a 12th grader(me) dating a 9th grader? I don't think its a big deal if we like each other and if we don't really care about the age, but what would your reactions be? That leads me to my second point. How do I talk this girl? I noticed her a couple of weeks ago and can't get her out of my head. I've never felt like this about a girl I've never even talked to. I'm a pretty shy guy so talking to her won't be easy but I'm willing to try talking to her and create attraction but I need some advice on this. She's a couple of years younger than me so I don't want to come off too strong at first right? I'm thinking I'll have to slowly connect with her. But as I said I'm shy so I need to know how to talk to her the first time. I see her once in a while in the hallway but she is always with her friends so this makes it even harder to talk to her. Hmmm well I guess it would depend on what happens after you turn 18 and she still is under 16? What about post highschool? I know in my states - if you're 17 and she's younger - and you're having sexual relationships that could cause problems with the parents. Link to post Share on other sites
Legend Posted April 1, 2008 Share Posted April 1, 2008 It just depends... are you 18 or not Link to post Share on other sites
Siphon9a Posted April 1, 2008 Share Posted April 1, 2008 Well is she underage? Is that going to bring problem up? I mean my gf is 23 and I'm 27 so I guess the same kind of age gap applies. As far as talking to her. Well in that setting you just have to set yourself up in a situation where you will run into her. A game at school. After school activity. Or just let her know that you notice her in the halls and read more into her body language to see if she seems interested. If so just walk up to her and ask her name. If all her little friends get all giggly then thats' usually a good sign. Link to post Share on other sites
Author iceknite Posted April 1, 2008 Author Share Posted April 1, 2008 (edited) Well I don't think she's the type to have sexual relations early in the relationship. Hopefully her parents trust me enough. btw Im 17 and shes probably 14 going on 15 soon if she isnt already Edited April 1, 2008 by iceknite Link to post Share on other sites
dreamergrl Posted April 1, 2008 Share Posted April 1, 2008 Even if there is sex later on - that could be a problem. Be careful! Link to post Share on other sites
Author iceknite Posted April 1, 2008 Author Share Posted April 1, 2008 Well im not really worried about that now. Link to post Share on other sites
dreamergrl Posted April 1, 2008 Share Posted April 1, 2008 I'm not sure if high schoolers these days stay with their gf/bf post graduation much - but if you do - you may have to be willing to wait till she's 17/18 to have a type of sexual relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
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