Pyro Posted April 1, 2008 Posted April 1, 2008 Fireboy? Anyhoowee, Pyro is turning me on with all his talk. He knows it. I am training to be a Firefighter. I am on fire.
NuTuDating Posted April 1, 2008 Posted April 1, 2008 Which is it? First you generalize all women as a whole and then you claim that you aren't but here you go again. I didn't start the thread, #1. I'm not saying there aren't a few exceptions. They're just hard to find.
HeavenScent Posted April 1, 2008 Posted April 1, 2008 I am training to be a Firefighter. I am on fire. O M G That is so hot!!!
Saxis Posted April 1, 2008 Posted April 1, 2008 What exactly is wrong with the title of this thread? Women often say they want one thing and do another. I've not met that many straightforward women, including most of the ones I work with who complain about their husbands. A woman who is open and honest and up front and KNOWS what she wants seem to be the exception rather than the rule. Perhaps there are a lot of "exceptions" who post here, but aside from that.... Really... doesn't seem like that much of an "all-inclusive" generalization if you use a bit of reading comprehension. Not that I agree with all of what these guys are saying: I'm just a stickler for the details. This is just going about it the wrong way.
a4a Posted April 1, 2008 Posted April 1, 2008 I didn't start the thread, #1. I'm not saying there aren't a few exceptions. They're just hard to find. When you play the role of a victim and with a negative attitude projected you will not attract the best specimens of either gender. (or those between)
dreamergrl Posted April 1, 2008 Posted April 1, 2008 Not true... if I thought every woman in the world was this way, I'd not be dating. What would be the point? You constantly label woman as a whole - so why would we think you'd think any different. You words are what we are basing are reaction at. Do you think the woman you were currently seeing would continue to see you if you showed the same thoughts to her as you do on here? If you did, and I were her, I'd be running - like it was a sprint race. See? There's the latent attitude coming out - "never get laid again".... Did you see the word IF - as in if we were biased like that as well. Because people wont be sexual with a person who shows such behavior. I doesn't exactly bring out the best in you girls, either. It's a reaction to how you label us. We have every right to defend ourselves - otherwise we'd be just a doormat. I choose to stand up for myself rather then be told I'm this way or that way just because you lack healthy relationships.
NuTuDating Posted April 1, 2008 Posted April 1, 2008 How do you know she isn't honest and open with "her" husband at home - perhaps the husbands she is complaining about is a complete dolt? Do you spy on them at home? You can tell it the way it is - be upfront and honest - and some people just don't believe or acknowledge it. No need to spy when they talk about all their issues out in the open.
a4a Posted April 1, 2008 Posted April 1, 2008 I am training to be a Firefighter. I am on fire. I am tempted to spontaneously combust just to get you near me.
Pyro Posted April 1, 2008 Posted April 1, 2008 O M G That is so hot!!! You say thats what you want, but in reality?
dreamergrl Posted April 1, 2008 Posted April 1, 2008 I didn't start the thread, #1. I'm not saying there aren't a few exceptions. They're just hard to find. You contribute to it, everyone of these threads - like you give them a pat on the head for it. So now it's just a few exceptions? Maybe they are hard to find for you because they don't feel like interacting with a man who is biased with woman.
Pyro Posted April 1, 2008 Posted April 1, 2008 I am tempted to spontaneously combust just to get you near me. You're a woman so you don't really mean that.
NuTuDating Posted April 1, 2008 Posted April 1, 2008 You constantly label woman as a whole - so why would we think you'd think any different. You words are what we are basing are reaction at. Do you think the woman you were currently seeing would continue to see you if you showed the same thoughts to her as you do on here? If you did, and I were her, I'd be running - like it was a sprint race. Maybe I'm looking for evidence that would show me otherwise. I'm still trying to figure out the girl I'm dating, since it's only been slightly more than a month or so. And she's definitely trying me out as well, since she's had some ****ty relationships in the past, as well. Did you see the word IF - as in if we were biased like that as well. Because people wont be sexual with a person who shows such behavior. Apparently you missed my "if" as well. It's a reaction to how you label us. We have every right to defend ourselves - otherwise we'd be just a doormat. I choose to stand up for myself rather then be told I'm this way or that way just because you lack healthy relationships. We're just doing the same, I suppose, then.
HeavenScent Posted April 1, 2008 Posted April 1, 2008 You say thats what you want, but in reality? In reality, if you didn't have a girlfriend, honey... you'd be over to put off this fire!
Timberlane Posted April 1, 2008 Posted April 1, 2008 Eeewwww :sick: That can be damaging to a lot of men It definitely teaches men to keep their mouths shut. :lmao:
a4a Posted April 1, 2008 Posted April 1, 2008 No need to spy when they talk about all their issues out in the open. I am guessing that is what your complaint is with the women you work with - they biotch about their H's and you assume they don't tell the H's how they truly feel? and I realize only women complain about their H's - men never complain to other people about their W's? why don't you be upfront and honest with the coworkers and tell them you are sick of hearing their complaints about their spouses?
Pyro Posted April 1, 2008 Posted April 1, 2008 In reality, if you didn't have a girlfriend, honey... you'd be over to put off this fire! is all I have to say.
a4a Posted April 1, 2008 Posted April 1, 2008 You're a woman so you don't really mean that. You're right - I want you to steal my purse instead.
Pyro Posted April 1, 2008 Posted April 1, 2008 You're right - I want you to steal my purse instead. So the OP was right then.
dreamergrl Posted April 1, 2008 Posted April 1, 2008 Maybe I'm looking for evidence that would show me otherwise. I'm still trying to figure out the girl I'm dating, since it's only been slightly more than a month or so. And she's definitely trying me out as well, since she's had some ****ty relationships in the past, as well. Apparently you missed my "if" as well. We're just doing the same, I suppose, then. You are hardly doing the same! We didn't start posts like this. Way to use us as a scapegoat again tho. Oh and she's had bad relationship in the past - which many woman who date jerks have and which leads them to continue to date jerks - so I bet she'd love to hear all this garbage you're spitting out.
HeavenScent Posted April 1, 2008 Posted April 1, 2008 You are hardly doing the same! We didn't start posts like this. Way to use us as a scapegoat again tho. Oh and she's had bad relationship in the past - which many woman who date jerks have and which leads them to continue to date jerks - so I bet she'd love to hear all this garbage you're spitting out. Right on. I'm going to get another fresh pickle. I'm sure there will be another thread like this later on or tomorrow by oh I don't know.. another new poster, maybe.
Pyro Posted April 1, 2008 Posted April 1, 2008 Maybe if a third or fourth person says the same thing you will understand. There is a difference between complaining about a specific person (ie your SO, your mom, your bestfriend, whatver) and an entire gender. This deserves to be recognized.
NuTuDating Posted April 1, 2008 Posted April 1, 2008 You contribute to it, everyone of these threads - like you give them a pat on the head for it. So now it's just a few exceptions? Maybe they are hard to find for you because they don't feel like interacting with a man who is biased with woman. Not quite following you. Yeah, from what I've seen, most of the women like you claim are all over the place seem to be pretty rare. I don't exactly wear my bias on my sleeve when I date, and I do date a good bit, so, I'm not really sure where you're drawing your conclusions from.
NuTuDating Posted April 1, 2008 Posted April 1, 2008 You are hardly doing the same! We didn't start posts like this. Way to use us as a scapegoat again tho. Oh and she's had bad relationship in the past - which many woman who date jerks have and which leads them to continue to date jerks - so I bet she'd love to hear all this garbage you're spitting out. What garbage?
dreamergrl Posted April 1, 2008 Posted April 1, 2008 Not quite following you. Yeah, from what I've seen, most of the women like you claim are all over the place seem to be pretty rare. I don't exactly wear my bias on my sleeve when I date, and I do date a good bit, so, I'm not really sure where you're drawing your conclusions from. I'm drawing them from how many times you've expressed you're bad luck in dating (you've mentioned cheaters and users and such in other posts) It is easier to place blame on other people then taking responsibility for your own words and actions though, isn't it?
dreamergrl Posted April 1, 2008 Posted April 1, 2008 What garbage? Woman are this woman are that.. blah blah blah - did you forget already?
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