NuTuDating Posted April 1, 2008 Posted April 1, 2008 Those aren't men bashing threads. Well, men complain, women complain.
underpants Posted April 1, 2008 Posted April 1, 2008 Are we doing this again? There is a middle ground between the nice guy and the jerk that I term the 'Genuine guy'. He knows himself and is honest and approaches relationships from a genuine and respectful standpoint. He doesn't play games, spin plates, or seek validation via the external. He has learned to embrace and control his ego. He commands respect by giving the proper partner that same respect. Overly nice guys tend to get used or just wind up resentful and lethargic of their partner. Not fun. Jerks are no fun either and attract or bring out the insecure traits of women. This combo is usually drama filled and eventually the girl cheats on him (upgrades) or dumps him in frustration. Or they have a toxic life together. Become a genuine and respectful person yourself and seek to attract the same in a romatic partner. You can't game genuineness, it is either there or it isn't.
HeavenScent Posted April 1, 2008 Posted April 1, 2008 IMO, they are bored of everyone over there agreeing with what they are saying, so that is why they came over here. They want to argue here and bring people over to their message board so they can argue with them there as well and create some excitement in their lives. Yes, I agree! It's easier to bring people over to their side cos they can say whatever they want and not get banned. Do you know how many times in one thread they talk about how all their members (some members, whatever) get banned here? I think almost each and every page, that will be mentioned.
Pyro Posted April 1, 2008 Posted April 1, 2008 Well, men complain, women complain. Complaing about your SO happens. No ones SO is perfect. Men and woman bashing are done by those who are single and have had bad luck trying to meet someone and they get frustrated.
NuTuDating Posted April 1, 2008 Posted April 1, 2008 Complaing about your SO happens. No ones SO is perfect. Men and woman bashing are done by those who are single and have had bad luck trying to meet someone and they get frustrated. Well I'm not single. Not exactly too far along in the current relationship... And people complaining about their SOs is not frustration?
dreamergrl Posted April 1, 2008 Posted April 1, 2008 You base your opinion on women as a whole - from just a few bad experiences. They all are ultimately whiners, nagging, cheaters, users, ect ect. Now if women based their opinion on men as a whole - based on the threads a few of you women bashing men have posted - the male race would never get laid again. If I judged men based off of threads like this, or based off of guys that have abused me, or cheated on me - I'd be single for the rest of my life. Because no man would want to deal with a girl who grouped them up with the men that ARE *********s. Really threads like this make you look bad.
HeavenScent Posted April 1, 2008 Posted April 1, 2008 Of course, there are exceptions but how many of you female respondants are currently with a nice guy? What attracted you to him? I was with a nice guy. In fact, he was such a fantastic man but it had to end. A lot about him attracted me to him. His characteristics, his family and more.
Pyro Posted April 1, 2008 Posted April 1, 2008 Well I'm not single. Not exactly too far along in the current relationship... And people complaining about their SOs is not frustration? see post 31.
dreamergrl Posted April 1, 2008 Posted April 1, 2008 Well, men complain, women complain. Ugghhh how do you compare those threads to a thread like this? One of those a woman was feeling sad because she wasn't told by her bf he loved her as much. The other was expressing what they want in a man. This thread is just straight up coming down on ALL women. It's so different.
NuTuDating Posted April 1, 2008 Posted April 1, 2008 You base your opinion on women as a whole - from just a few bad experiences. They all are ultimately whiners, nagging, cheaters, users, ect ect. Not true... if I thought every woman in the world was this way, I'd not be dating. What would be the point? Now if women based their opinion on men as a whole - based on the threads a few of you women bashing men have posted - the male race would never get laid again. See? There's the latent attitude coming out - "never get laid again".... If I judged men based off of threads like this, or based off of guys that have abused me, or cheated on me - I'd be single for the rest of my life. Because no man would want to deal with a girl who grouped them up with the men that ARE *********s. Really threads like this make you look bad. I doesn't exactly bring out the best in you girls, either.
Pyro Posted April 1, 2008 Posted April 1, 2008 Not true... if I thought every woman in the world was this way, I'd not be dating. What would be the point? Look at the name of this thread. Its kind of hard to not think otherwise.
underpants Posted April 1, 2008 Posted April 1, 2008 Of course, there are exceptions but how many of you female respondants are currently with a nice guy? What attracted you to him? For what it is worth I'm dating a great guy. I'm super duper attracted to him.
NuTuDating Posted April 1, 2008 Posted April 1, 2008 Look at the name of this thread. Its kind of hard to not think otherwise. What exactly is wrong with the title of this thread? Women often say they want one thing and do another. I've not met that many straightforward women, including most of the ones I work with who complain about their husbands. A woman who is open and honest and up front and KNOWS what she wants seem to be the exception rather than the rule. Perhaps there are a lot of "exceptions" who post here, but aside from that....
HeavenScent Posted April 1, 2008 Posted April 1, 2008 It doesn't exactly bring out the best in you girls, either. When we tell you what we are made off, you go off saying things such as "I'd take you as an exception at face" or whatever it was. I am an exception cos I don't play stupid mind games such as what some of you over there play which is really sad considering some of them are pretty old. I am an exception as I have gone through a lot for a young woman like myself in relationships and in other areas of my life. As all of you complained, for all the effort and time you took to post here and to have all your posts deleted, it is the same for me. I took the time to tell a bit about what I am made of but guys like you and your brothers just don't want to believe it that there are women like those who you can only dream of having.
Pyro Posted April 1, 2008 Posted April 1, 2008 What exactly is wrong with the title of this thread? Women often say they want one thing and do another. I've not met that many straightforward women, including most of the ones I work with who complain about their husbands. A woman who is open and honest and up front and KNOWS what she wants seem to be the exception rather than the rule. Perhaps there are a lot of "exceptions" who post here, but aside from that.... Which is it? First you generalize all women as a whole and then you claim that you aren't but here you go again.
a4a Posted April 1, 2008 Posted April 1, 2008 Which is it? First you generalize all women as a whole and then you claim that you aren't but here you go again. See FireBoy you are turning me on with this chatter...makes me want you...real bad! - perhaps the OP needs to recognize this.
dreamergrl Posted April 1, 2008 Posted April 1, 2008 Well I'm not single. Not exactly too far along in the current relationship... And people complaining about their SOs is not frustration? There is a HUGE HUGE HUGE difference. Now follow me carefully.... Example of looking for advice: My SO and I have been together for X amount of years. Things aren't the same as they used to be. We aren't having sex as much, things seem routine, I want the spice back! I wish he'd do (insert what would make person feel better) so I would know that this is going somewhere. or I am looking for this type of man.... am I being unrealistic, or can this happen? Venting and taking anger and hostility out on a gender: Don't take advice from women because they are dumb and don't know what they want. All they do is nag. When they are done using you, they will cheat on you. If I become a jerk maybe then I'll get sex because all women love jerks. But what a poster who would write something like the angry post does not seem to comprehend is this: Everyone is different. You can not group a gender into one type. That would be like saying all black people are thugs and gangsters. Is it possible you just keep dating the same type of women for a reason? Maybe an unhealthy pattern you developed when you where younger? YOu like to use the phrase women date jerks - well many do because they fall into that pattern - and that pattern is hard to break. Many people come down on people who continue to put themselves in the same bad situation. Because those people never seem to learn or grow - they just continue with what they know. Perhaps you angry men continue with what you know and only stick to that.
NuTuDating Posted April 1, 2008 Posted April 1, 2008 I am an exception cos I don't play stupid mind games such as what some of you over there play which is really sad considering some of them are pretty old. I am an exception as I have gone through a lot for a young woman like myself in relationships and in other areas of my life. I'm not from "over there". I came here initially to ask for advice about dating a single mother, who I'm still happily seeing. As all of you complained, for all the effort and time you took to post here and to have all your posts deleted, it is the same for me. I took the time to tell a bit about what I am made of but guys like you and your brothers just don't want to believe it that there are women like those who you can only dream of having. Some of us want to believe...
blind_otter Posted April 1, 2008 Posted April 1, 2008 Well I'm not single. Not exactly too far along in the current relationship... And people complaining about their SOs is not frustration? Maybe if a third or fourth person says the same thing you will understand. There is a difference between complaining about a specific person (ie your SO, your mom, your bestfriend, whatver) and an entire gender.
Pyro Posted April 1, 2008 Posted April 1, 2008 See FireBoy you are turning me on with this chatter...makes me want you...real bad! - perhaps the OP needs to recognize this. Come to Pyro.
Timberlane Posted April 1, 2008 Posted April 1, 2008 My goodness. Poor thing. You must have been forced to watch too many chic flicks!! Maybe one too many chics flicked their boogers on him.
HeavenScent Posted April 1, 2008 Posted April 1, 2008 See FireBoy you are turning me on with this chatter...makes me want you...real bad! - perhaps the OP needs to recognize this. Fireboy? Anyhoowee, Pyro is turning me on with all his talk. He knows it.
HeavenScent Posted April 1, 2008 Posted April 1, 2008 Maybe one too many chics flicked their boogers on him. Eeewwww :sick: That can be damaging to a lot of men
a4a Posted April 1, 2008 Posted April 1, 2008 What exactly is wrong with the title of this thread? Women often say they want one thing and do another. I've not met that many straightforward women, including most of the ones I work with who complain about their husbands. A woman who is open and honest and up front and KNOWS what she wants seem to be the exception rather than the rule. Perhaps there are a lot of "exceptions" who post here, but aside from that.... How do you know she isn't honest and open with "her" husband at home - perhaps the husbands she is complaining about is a complete dolt? Do you spy on them at home? You can tell it the way it is - be upfront and honest - and some people just don't believe or acknowledge it.
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