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The world is pretty small and i am bound to run into her eventually. Is late in the night right now but I can't seem to stop thinking about it. I am running scenario of how I should act if I was to see her. Should I...

 

1. totally ignore her and brush her off

2. say hi and ask her how she's doing?

3. smile and proceed to walk

4. do #2 and start a convo (this is going to be tough but i think i can manage)

 

my friend suggest i just be natural, "let the moment come to you," he say. I really hate to be put on the spot and would rather be emotionally prepare if this situation present itself.

 

I could never view my ex as friend so would it be wise to even be friendly and try to. Which 1 would be more hurtful in the long run for me?

 

On the day that we broke up she mention that she can't never act like she doesn't know me. She say that she would ask how I was doing, give me a hug or a kiss on the check. I think she say this during the moment and that right now is a totally different ball game.

 

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First g/f for 4 3/4 yrs and have been on NC for 2 month.

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#5: Say hi and keep walking.

 

I don't know if others will agree with that. Hm?

 

Though I'll admit, I wouldn't follow my own #5. I would've (and have) gone for your #1. The less I know about his life and the less I see him, the better off I am.

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