jp1094 Posted April 1, 2008 Posted April 1, 2008 (edited) i just reunited with an old high school friend after a few years. she happens to be a really old crush of mine, and we always had a thing for each other, but the timing was always really bad. to make a long story short - she dated a friend of mine that i introduced her to years ago, that ended, she started another relationship shortly after that and it lasted throughout college for about 5 years. i always had a crush on her, and every time i saw her all the feelings came back - i haven't lived in the same city as her in years. so i get a text message the other day before i went home to visit family for the Easter holiday saying "i miss you, i love you where are you?" this was totally out of the blue. i made time out of my busy schedule to go see her, and we stayed up all night talking for hours. we basically spilled our guts to each other, she admitted that she had feelings for me, always thought of me as the good guy, such a great guy, etc. etc. i was always the nice guy, and she told me that's why i probably keep getting burned in relationships that i have. she told me her weakness was going after guys with no futures, who are scumbags, and would give anything to be with a guy like me. things happened, but she stopped and said "I need to do the right thing with you, i need to do this the right way...." which i didn't really understand. then i thought about it and it made sense. we made plans for her to come visit me in my city, and then take a 2 week vacation and take a trip together like we used to years ago as best friends. what i don't understand is, after that night, the constant text messaging and phone calls all of a sudden stopped completely - she won't respond to my phone calls or texts. i admit, i did send her texts saying "i'm so glad we had that talk, you're everything i want, etc, etc" but no response. can anyone explain that? maybe she got a bit freaked out? did i come at her too fast? but she spilled her guts to me as well, sorta........ a few years ago, i was in my hometown and we got together, caught up, and sort of the same thing happened - she just ignored my calls - but then when she felt like it, she would contact me. why the immediate lack of communication, why did it all of a sudden stop, after all these years of knowing each other, being absolute best friends, reuniting? do i just leave it alone? stop trying to contact her? we made plans for the end of April, that's the only thing - i've decided at this point just to forget about it. maybe write her a letter? any thoughts? Edited April 1, 2008 by jp1094
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