Lucky555 Posted March 31, 2008 Posted March 31, 2008 I am having difficulty breaking away from someone i like. He just keeps leading me on and I know this but I find it very hard to let go. Just when i know i am fine he some how enters my life and it repeats a cycle. I have never ever fallen for anyone like this. Methods to get him out of my life? Dont reply to him, dont call him, dont talk to him correct? seriously things will be going great and wonderful then today hes being a jerk. This happens a lot! its like he switches his moods on and off. Is there a remedy!
Nuguy12 Posted March 31, 2008 Posted March 31, 2008 I am having difficulty breaking away from someone i like. He just keeps leading me on and I know this but I find it very hard to let go. Just when i know i am fine he some how enters my life and it repeats a cycle. I have never ever fallen for anyone like this. Methods to get him out of my life? Dont reply to him, dont call him, dont talk to him correct? seriously things will be going great and wonderful then today hes being a jerk. This happens a lot! its like he switches his moods on and off. Is there a remedy! It is not him - it is you who has the problem of detaching. Try this, it works for me: Cut off ALL contact. This is easily within your power to do so. If you continue to CHOOSE to reconnect with him you will continue to have him in your life. If you DISconnect, the problem is gone. If you REconnect the problem comes back. See how easy this is ?
Author Lucky555 Posted April 1, 2008 Author Posted April 1, 2008 I feel like i need to run!!!!!!!!! I got felt closer to the guy i am seeing and i don't talk about how i feel to him. I waited for him to contact me after two weeks and nothing. So i talked to him and we had a blast chatting. THEN BOOM today hes very distant i did nothing wrong. If the guy wanted to see me and talk to me he would find a way right ? So yeah i need to disconnect. i went two weeks without talking and then i did ugh.
Jilly Bean Posted April 1, 2008 Posted April 1, 2008 Lucky - it's one step forward, two steps back sometimes. Don't beat yourself up. Just immediately go back to NC.
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